does guys hates when their woman starts to be clingy?

Philippines
October 27, 2008 10:43am CST
i am just wondering if men really don't like when their woman started to become clingy? where the girl would seek special attention from the guy everyday. i think this will not happen if the guy lets his girl feel special and not taken for granted at times especially if they are too busy. guys speak out please. gals what are your say on this?
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@taripres (1499)
• United States
29 Oct 08
I don't mind a woman being clingy, now overbearing is a different story! Clingy just means she wants u and only u and not afraid to show it, affectionate and passionate! Now what man doesn't want that? Taripre$
• Philippines
29 Oct 08
hi there, thanks for the post and have a great day!!!
@taripres (1499)
• United States
31 Oct 08
Affectionate women are the best women, cause I know they're into me! It's great feeling wanted by someone ur into, u know u have something special! Taripre$
• India
30 Oct 08
YUp yup. it can be a problem , if the girl becomes too clingy. Well a lil bit is just soo damfine. But too much can get anooying . Very anooying and thats very bad for the relationship, then the guy would stay more and more away from her.Well you are correct that this wouldnt happen if the guy makes her girl feel special and not for granted. but my question to you is that? Can this be done all the times?? then it just might be a big annoying thing for everyone. Well anyways nice discussion and happy mylotting to you :)
• Philippines
31 Oct 08
hi there friend. thanks for the post. i would understand that there will be times that it can't be done but it is a matter of assurance. thanks is. my two cents.
@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
28 Oct 08
I think either male or female would like to find a balance of both in their partners. Someone who wants to give them their attention, craves their attention but at the same time have their own thing going on too. If some girl or some guy is too clingy, there's too much pressure and burden put on their partner. If they're way too independent of their partners, then the other would probably wonder why they're together in the first place.
• Philippines
29 Oct 08
i totally agree with you friend that every relationship needs balance or else that would be the cause of the end of a relationship. thanks.
@underdogtoo (9596)
• Philippines
27 Oct 08
There are many different kinds of people in this world and I am one kind who does not like clingy women. Cheers!!
• Philippines
29 Oct 08
hello there, thanks for the post. i think most of the guys don't like clingy women. LOL. have a great day!!!
@Shar1979 (2723)
• United States
27 Oct 08
it all depends on how clingy your partner is. i hate it when someone is way too clingy and they depend on me all the time. it gets tiring as well. then i start to back out and avoid them
• Philippines
29 Oct 08
thanks for sharing your thoughts. have a great day!!!
@messageme (2821)
• United States
27 Oct 08
I think the first answer to this question is the best. But it really makes me wonder about my own relationship....At first it was a mutual thing we were both clingy on each other always wanting to be by each other. We would get nothing done!! Almost two years later we live our days busy, we have 6 kids all togher and we never seem to have time for ourselves any more. I feel myself getting upset more often bcause I long for our sweetness we use to have now I feel unappreciated and I do fear that I will lose him, but it's also because I express this to him that I feel Im pushing him to that. If he would just show me some love like he use too I wouldn't worry about it. But my answer to your question is. I think it completely depends on the guy. There are many guys that are not ready for commitment and in that case a girl can either be a little clingy or a lot either way it don't matter he is just going to move on when he gets bored anyways.
• Philippines
27 Oct 08
i think that is what important for every girl being appreciated and every girl would long for the sweetness that was being shown and acted upon them when the relationship just started. thanks for the post and have a great day!!!
@bpedas (9)
• United States
27 Oct 08
It depends on the level of the clinginess. I mean, if you gave me the choice of her being too clingy or her being completely independent of me I'd choose the clinginess, as it's nice to be needed. And more than anything, I would fear that if she didn't express ANY interest in needing me that she was losing interest in me all together. And like I said, it's nice to be needed. I like feeling that she can come to me for anything and actually wants to spend all of her time with me. But then again, to me there's positive clinginess and negative clinginess. Positive is that she wants to spend all of her time with me and wants to talk with me all the time because she's crazy about me. We're crazy about each other. Negative clinginess is she wants to spend every moment talking to me and being with me because she's afraid I don't love her and she'll lose me, and that if I get out of her sight for a moment I'll run off with someone else. And you're right, if a guy would just do something special for her to show he cares then she wouldn't do that. He would reinforce her insecurities and she wouldn't have to cling to him just to hope he won't 'run away.' There are many cases and types of clinginess, but the first thing that comes to mind is fear. Fear of losing them. So they cling and hold on so their boyfriend can't 'run off'. And let's face it, a girl who feels appreciated and special and cared for isn't going to worry about that.
• Philippines
27 Oct 08
thanks for sharing. i truly appreciate what you have shared hope all guys would agree to what you have said. have a great week. :)