Will you date with a man, though you know he will not get married with you?
By dandan07
@dandan07 (1906)
China
October 29, 2008 7:06am CST
One of my friends tries to find a man with money, now she make it.
But the man told her that he wanted to keep his present life, and would not get married with her.
Now problem comes out. Dating with him, can help her to lead a rich life, but may be no future, no family and no child. If she gives up, it is really hard for her to find a man as perfect as him. So it is really hard for my friend to make a choice now.
If you were in her place, what will you do?
Give me your opinion!
2 responses
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
29 Oct 08
my answer is simple...no. I could never date a man who doesn't intend to marry me. I follow the line of "I kissed dating goodbye" I don't date someone for the sake of dating him. I date my boyfriend because i see a future with him and he believes the same. He is courting me, not dating me and that's his words.
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@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
29 Oct 08
LOL well I'd never BE in her place..I have never wanted a relationship with a man for his money..I am very capable of taking care of myself and using ppl (which is exactly what that is) is NOT something I'm into..Now I've had sugar daddys BUT we had an agreement there was no "relationship" in the sense that your gf is looking for..It was just an arrangement that worked out well me and the guy.
Your friend needs to decide what she wants...if she wants a family and happiness etc she should be looking for LOVE..if she just wants a sugardaddy she needs to learn how to play the game and realize that LOVE IS NOT NOR WILL IT EVER BE part of the equation which means no marriage, no happy ending etc etc.
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