in relationships, would you go for fling or for keeps?

Philippines
November 1, 2008 11:23am CST
being in a relationship gives you a sense of commitment with the person that you have a relationship with but some are afraid to commit and to be a one-man-woman or a one woman-man and would prefer having flings here and there. if you are to choose would you commit to a person or would prefer fling over keeps? as for me i would always go for keeps in my relationship.
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3 responses
@littleone3 (2065)
1 Nov 08
For me it would and is for keeps i have had my share of flings and am now in a committed relationship. I would not want it any other way.
• Philippines
2 Nov 08
thanks for sharing. wish you a happy and fulfilling relationship that will last forever. have a great weekend!!!
@jesbellaine (4157)
• Philippines
1 Nov 08
Hi THere. Definitely for keeps. I don't like to fling or to play with my relationship so I would love to have someone who will treasure me as I do to him.
• Philippines
2 Nov 08
we all seek for real love and commitment as we grow older and mature looking forward being with the man we love who loves us back for a lifetime. thanks for the post!!!
@Tianna2 (1274)
• United States
1 Nov 08
I would always prefer a relationship to a fling but sometimes flings can tern into relationships too. I've had more then my share of flings and some have lasted pretty long but I'm starting to get to an age where I want to settle down and maybe have some kids. I wouldnt have kids without knowing that I'm going to be with a person for the rest of my life, maybe thats where the fear sets in. How does one really know if this person is the one they want to spend forever with? I guess this is the real reason I'm still single-Fear. Hugs, Tianna
• Philippines
2 Nov 08
hi there friend, when we are younger we all find having a fling fun but as we go mature we look for real relationship were commitment is ensured. loosen up don't fear of not getting the right man. every relationship have to be be worked out. that really depends on both partners to make the relationship last till lifetime. Keep on lovin'.:)