engaged who should ask

I told my wife before she became my wife that if she wanted to get married it would have to be on the full moon of may or not at all. Was that romantic? Cheers!!

But at this time both of them will be so eager for that.So it doesn't matter who asked it first.But If it was me I will ask fist.(i.e the man).And i think many ladies though they want to ask it they will avoid it and let the man to start first.

Yes,I also believe that man should be the one who ask it and not women.. It is not because it is romantic but it should be.. Well, it doesn't look good if the girl ask the guy to marry her it seems the girl is very desperate to get married or scared to lose the guy.. In our country, we prefer man will be the one to ask or propose when it comes to marry because it doesn't look good with other people if the girl makes the proposal, it only means that the girl is very desperate to tie the guy in her life.. Since it is the traditions here in the country, the girl should wait until the guy propose to her.. If the guy didn't propose her then it only means that the guy doesn't want to get married with her.. At least the girl now that that guy isn't right for her..

I think whoever decides they definitely want to marry the other person should ask. A lot of times women will want to get married, but they won't ask because they think it's the man's job to ask. Of course, I might be a bit hypocritical because I'm waiting for my boyfriend to ask me. Then again, we've talked about it and we both know we want to marry each other so it's like we're married already!