Why some good things end?
November 3, 2008 6:50am CST
hi mylotters! there are many things is life that are so good that when you loss it, it gives you much pain. Why are things temporary? Why cant just bad things end and only the good thing stays? Losing something can really cause pain to us. You mylotters, how did you cope with the loss you have? thanks for sharing.
3 Nov 08
Good things end because it happened for a reason. At times when this happens, I always just think that God has better plans for me or there is something better to happen. It isn't easy to lose something or someone especially if we have been with them for a long time. It is hard and really devastating. Why can't we just have the good things? I sometimes tell my self this, I can never feel what's good If haven't felt what's bad. Maybe, life is like that. We can never have all the good things in life but we can always be happy, because it is our choice.
3 Nov 08
If we lose one thing see to it that there is new one ready to replace. Most of the time we've lost of our love ones getting away or maybe passing away any of the two. God knows what is best for us and all reasons are valid. The only thing we cannot accept is the fact that they are gone and we left behind. Because of our too much attachment with our love either it is man or things or property we feel the pain if they are lost or gone. Because the focus of our interest is within it. But I know if one thing is lost sure there is another one to replace. Sadness is just an emotions and we can handle it and we are just in a temporary world of living.
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3 Nov 08
I've lost plenty. I've lost family,friends,homes (plural), vehicles (plural), and my health. The way one copes is different for each individual person I believe. The way I cope is through faith and prayer. When I lost my health at first I spent three years mostly in bed crying. I went from an active wife,mom, and toddler teacher to some stranger using a cane just to walk. It wasn't me. I had to accept the new me before I could move forward and it is an ongoing process. I have an article written about change if you'd like to read it send me a message and I'll link you to it. All things come to an end, not just the good. Thankfully, the bad comes to an end too. I didn't believe this until a year ago when life improved for us. I think life would be a bore if it weren't ever changing.