have you ever doubt about your partners true feelings for you??

@cathya (704)
Philippines
November 6, 2008 2:48am CST
i know that in a relationship there is ups and downs, petty quarrels and the likes but sometimes when i'm fed up with those things it came to me to doubt if my partner really loves me, sounds paranoid but its true. am i being unfair to my partner when i have this doubt?
7 responses
@rea_02 (49)
• Philippines
7 Nov 08
It's very hard to doubt on your partner, it only means that you don't trust your partner. On the other hand, you can't avoid of being paranoid if you feel that something is wrong especially when you noticed some changes on your partner. For me, there's nothing wrong with it because we have this so called instinct especially for girls and this instinct is sometimes not far from the truth. The best thing to do is that when you are confused about the action of your partner is try to talk to him, have a time to talk about the things about you and your partner. Don't ever hesitate to ask questions and to open up the things that you noticed about your partner or what you feel about it. Your not going to doubt if there is nothing to doubt with but it is very important to trust those who are really trustworthy person.
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
7 Nov 08
thanks for your suggestion... have a good day! cheers!
• India
6 Nov 08
No cathya my friend, That is a very wrong thing to do I feel. I was once a person who did not believe anyone that easily.But I have seen its effects.So no matter what happens pls do not doubt your partner.Fights will come and go but they would only make your relationship stronger. And by the way, believing your partner is one way of showing how much you love them. Everything will go well.All the best.
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
7 Nov 08
well am not always feeling that way, its just that there were instances that pushes me to feel that way. of course i love my partner that's why i don't want to be unfair to him thank you so much
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
6 Nov 08
Why don't you be open to your partner. Soyou would know if he loves you. No your not being unfair, it's what you feel, so why don't you talk to him. If he loves you he will understand you. I don't think that their is a perfect relationship. It's how both of you to work it out. Sometimes my gf feels that way, but she tells me what is wrong. So I can clarify and justify myself if she feel bad so she wont feel that I don't love her, but the truth is I really love her very much! Have a nice evening!
@patzel88 (3310)
• Philippines
6 Nov 08
i never think my partner dont love me for he is the best partner and a responsible one that can handle the responsibility as a father to his two kids and a husband to me for he is like my friend, my bother and my lover. From the start and until now he never change, when he is courting to me he showed to me his real attitude thats why i am not surprise of what he has. I realize that it is good to show who we are when we are single and until we are in a relationship showing our real identity will not give any problem when building a family. Be natural and show who we are.
@SangsTurks (1444)
• India
6 Nov 08
No, i never doubt my partners feeling for me. Even when in a quarrel, i know that it is situational and that i would fade away with time but love does not fade. Atleast i am sure that my partner love me and i love him the same.
@rainmark (4302)
6 Nov 08
Sometimes i also think like that, always having a doubt or maybe im just insecure coz my partner is more cute and handsome lolz. But i always calm myself and erase those kind of thinking coz it really makes me sick lolz. Cheers.
@celestos (814)
• United States
6 Nov 08
I don't think so,I do think everyone or at least some of us feel the same way at times. I do when my partner seems to be distant or distracted.Sometimes I doubt when I have not heard I love you for awhile. I think it is normal.