Do you think my friend made the most stupid decision in her life?Read and Advice
United Arab Emirates
November 6, 2008 11:29am CST
My friend (name disclosed) married her boyfriend who got her pregnant last September. She was 4 months pregnant by then. When she told me she was getting married, I opposed to her decision and told her to think about it again but she was too excited about his boyfriend proposing to him; So that wedding happened. After just a month, I came across my friend's shout out in friendster "I'VE MADE THE MOST STUPID DECISION IN MY LIFE, I MARRIED A MONSTER!!!!". I was really shocked upon reading it and I know my past intuition about this guy was coming into reality. I immediately called her up to pacify her and support her at least. She then asked me if she really did the most stupid decision and I was so speechless about it because I don't want to directly blame her about what happened to her life. I just simply changed the topic but I am still eager to answer her question in a good approach. IF SHE ASKS YOU SAME QUESTION, WHAT WOULD BE YOUR ANSWER TO HER? Please do help me... Thanks^^,
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• United States
6 Nov 08
How long were they together before they got pregnant and married? My sister was with this guy only 2 months when they decided they wanted to have a baby. Then they got married while she was 6 months pregnant with pressure from the family who thought she should be married before she had the baby. I thought it was kind of stupid because they didn't seem right and no one really liked him. Two years later and they are still together. If she is unhappy and thinks she made a wrong decision she should fix it either with counseling or divorce. If you think she made a stupid choice then in a nice well I think you should be honest and tell her that.
7 Nov 08
Well, cant say it's the most stupid decision in her life.. BEcause after all, the baby needs a father.. ANd if she thinks for the baby, that's not a bad decision.. But if she only think for herself, than it's a bad one.. AT least when the guy propose to her, on his own will?? Shows that he is responsible and wanan take care of them both.. It's not as if your fren forced him to marry her, and that will be a totally different scernario which she really make the most stupid decision ^_^
7 Nov 08
I think I wont remind her of her foolish decision anymore. She made a mistake and maybe she could think of better things now for her baby sake.I won't even talk about the father of the baby anymore. It's gonna be her next moves. How will she makes her own life with the baby. Have a nice day!