Who feels more isecure in a relationship,a man or a woman?

November 6, 2008 7:06pm CST
Well, when I asked the above question to some of my friends which includes both genders;I was confused with their answers.The girls told me they feel more insecure and the boys told me they feel more insecure in a relationship.They all had their own points that juustified their answers.I did not find a single one telling me that the opposite gender is insecure.Why? Do you have the answer?
4 responses
• Philippines
7 Nov 08
insecurity is not a categorical matter, since it all lies in the personality of an individual. a man can be more insecure in a woman in their relation if: the woman earns more than the man, if the woman is more successful than the man, and if the woman is more dominant than the man. on the other hand, a woman can also be more insecure given that the man is more successful, more powerful, and more financially-capable. insecurity i guess can't be measured with simple generalization. some claim that we, women, are more insecure, but guys do get jealous and they also do feel inadequate at times.
@cathya (705)
• Philippines
7 Nov 08
very much true! am so agree with you
@diillu (5130)
7 Nov 08
Well, I would say that it depends upon the kind of relationship they have and the person they are involved with. As for me, I used to have the superb relationship and we were never insecure about eachother but it's been couple of months that we are living away from eachother. So, these days we both, me and my partner are growing insecure about eachother. He is insecure as much as I'm. So for me it's the both way.
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
7 Nov 08
I think it's really tru it's both gender. Why cause Love is risk. No one can tell when will it end. It's only time can tell. You don't know if it's meant for you. Even it takes years or what time change and people change that's kind a scary. In love you don't ask in return. It's just hoping it was you hahaha! Have a nice day!
• United States
7 Nov 08
I believe men are more insecure because women are more apt to getting someone of the opposite gender due to the fact that women are normally in control thanks Ms. V Gina.