My Opinion

hi, I suppose its everybody's dream to get married to the right person.And for it to last forever,and hey some people are lucky enough to have that luck.But i know hat my rand parents have been together for over twenty years but thay had both been through a divorce before meeting each other. So i suppose you just have to learn from your mistakes and if that means a divorce then so be it. Thats the way i see it...

No, you are not wrong at all. Actually you are very smart. You are doing the right thing for your own benefit. I think I am the one who is stupid because I got married to the first person I fell in love with. I am not regretting anything, but I think if I didn't follow my heart maybe I will find somebody better than my current husband. Anyhow, we have been married for 10 years and I have gotten used to his attitude. I know he loves me. And I know I am such a bad tempered person. I always get angry with him when he does a mistake and I always think he doesn't love me. But actually he does, but the way he acts makes me think the other way around. You see, if you have the choice and the time, make the best choice. It is alright to get married late, than having to live forever with a person whom you hate looking at every morning when you wake up from bed. I wish you a happy life, and when you found your lover, congratulations.

I know just how you feel, Bbydollz! I was asked twice by two different guys (once by my high school boyfriend and once by my college boyfriend) - something told me not to do it. I met a guy in 1985 and I swear, I know it sounds stupid, but within one hour, I knew! I knew he was the one! Met on a Sunday, and he moved in with me on Friday! One month later we got married! That was in 1985, but in 1992, he was murdered. I KNOW without a doubt, I will NEVER marry again! He was it! There'll never be anyone to come close. Besides I loved him s deeply that I was traumatized for life! There is no better pleasure and no worse pain! Wait for your true love - it will be so worth it! (And trust your gut - you'll feel it too - you'll know when it's right - don't fall to the pressures of society!)