Hard time starting conversations...

Malaysia
November 8, 2008 1:18pm CST
I have a hard time starting conversation with people, especially meeting and talking to newly-met people. Or I would say that, the conversation won't be continuous, having long silents, and it ends fast. For your information, I'm a shy and quiet person. Sometimes, I just can't think of what questions to ask or continuing the started topic. I envy those who are talkative and daring to approach others. These type of people have a large circle of friends and are very popular as well. I'm not saying that I want to be popular but, what can I do to change myself? There are those who told me to just "say out what you feel like saying" but it's still difficult for me. Have you had troubles in conversations? Not to say that my problem is that bad but I want to improve in it.
1 response
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
8 Nov 08
Well... I think some people just gifted the ability to be able to make conversation with someone. I am not good at making conversation as well, some people said that I am not given the interpersonal intelligence, which means I am not good with people and conversation. I think it might be right, since they said people has their own specialties. I believe you have something that you are good at, and it must be something not related with human. It is not something bad, it is your gift and only you the one who knows how to develop your ability into your specialties. Good luck finding yourself, you don't have to be someone else to be liked :)