when you caught your boyfriend cheating on you, what will you do?

@yukyrob (167)
Philippines
November 8, 2008 7:11pm CST
cheating is a very bad hobby for the guys. what will you do when you caught him cheating on you with her previous ex-girlfriend?.... and what if you let him choose between you and that girl...? if he will tell you that he choose you and promise you that he will change his deeds.. will you still accept him or ignore him? there are incidents that people will experience this type of cruelty.. but if ever it will happen to you. what will you do?
5 responses
• Philippines
9 Nov 08
In every relationship, there is always the cheating part. Lucky are those who don't experience this. If there will come a time that I will encounter this then probably I would ditch him. Human beings are said to be rational beings. But there are always situations that this idea doesn't apply. Cheating is baaaad and it deserves a very bad ending for that man who did it to you. Happy mylotting!!!
• Philippines
9 Nov 08
Cheating is something that should not be commended or should i say, should be punished. I do agree with that. However, this usually occurs when two people engaged in a relationship are not that mature. There could be some factors on why some people cheat. Most probably it is being not satisfied with the present relationship that drives some guys to cheat. If you see your partner cheating on you, try to talk with him and try to settle on things which really makes him do that. In that way, you will also learn something out of it. If he cheats intentionally, then there is something wrong with that anymore. Do not waste your feelings on those undeserved person. As much as possible, take time to learn the reasons before confronting your partner. You might be misunderstood. Get some cues first before concluding/
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@diillu (5130)
9 Nov 08
Well, once a thief is always a thief. So, I wouldn't hope that after cheating me once he wouldn't do it again. So, I wouldn't give him a situation where he is allowed to chose me or the other girl. I would simply leave him and tell him to go his own way. It not only the thing I'm talking about but the thing that I did it to my ex when I caught him with another girl in some fancy resturant. So, I think this is the right thing to do for that kind of guy who can't simply by any serious.
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@babystar1 (4236)
• United States
9 Nov 08
If my boyfriend would cheat on me that would be the last time I would see him. cheaters will always be cheaters. Go and fine a new boyfriend.
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@kheyanne (288)
• Philippines
9 Nov 08
The relationship will never be the same. If I catch him cheating on me, and with his ex, then he's got five minutes to explain. The wrong words and the wrong moves would end the relationship right there.
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