moving on.......
By DEVONECO
@DEVONECO (144)
United States
November 8, 2008 7:56pm CST
What would you do if you had recurring disagreements and conflicts with your spouse in your marriage and you decide to leave you eventually? When he/she has found out that you have moved on in life and have found love with someone else, would he/she feel mad at you and want to make life hell for you? Would taking revenge and wanting to destroy you make him/her feel better? I am facing such a situation in my life right now and I feel as if though my ex wouldn't sleep until she's sure I am completely destroyed. I'd like to have feedback from people who are facing similar situations in their lives and are victims of vicious ex partners or spouses.
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3 responses
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
what kind of a guy is that?he's so selfish that he want to destroy your life just because you've already moved on.have you talk to him already?you should make an agreement that since you're already seperated,both of you can do whatever you like.he should be happy for you that your happy now.maybe you should hire a hitman to kill your ex..lol.but seriously speaking,he dont have the right to control your happiness.what does he want?you will always cry,think and become crazy just because youre already not with him?he's such a big loser.
if i were you,just dont mind him.just enjoy your life so that he'll become more jealous that you have moved on.
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
4 Feb 09
oh im so sorry.maybe i didn't read it properly.well anyway,it's still the same answer that i will say.that your ex should be happy for you.maye be i am just to affected with this situation because i already experience this kind of situation.she also needs to move on and just accept it.if you're already happy in your life now,then go ahead.no one has a right to destroy your life even your ex just because you've already moved on.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
18 Jan 09
I am not personally facing a situaion like that but I do have an ex that blames anything bad in his life on me. I don't care if falls and hits his knee..it's because I left him. Lol..It's not near what it used to be but sometimes exs can be very spiteful. Especially if you've been able to find happiness with someone else and they are still alone. When she finds someone else,it will be better. Hang in there. Maybe you could set her up with someone.lol
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
22 Jan 09
[i]HI Devon,
I am not in that situation but hopefully your ex will be able to move on and recover! She is just jealous and that is why she wants you to feel miserable too!
I hope she will find someone who will also love her in that way, she will be healed![/i]
