using friendship as an excuse

@Rainegurl (2158)
Philippines
November 9, 2008 1:46am CST
i have a friend who has a SECRET love relationship with a married woman with kids. we often talk about it but, frankly, i am tired of listening and giving advice. he told me he knows that he must stop seeing the married woman because it's wrong. he said that, not me. yet, his resolve only lasts for a few days and then he goes and sees her again. whenever i ask him why, he always has the same answer: he does not want their friendship to go to waste. i said, you are not going to end the friendship, just the FORBIDDEN relationship! Stop using your friendship as an excuse! sigh! what do you think guys?
3 responses
@anne12d (676)
• Philippines
9 Nov 08
He will have his time to realized how stupid he is that he had a relationship to a married woman. Just stop giving advices, he's not listening to you. He just wanted to hear what he wants to hear. For now, he's mind is closed that all he know is, he's doing the right thing.
@mhagskier (323)
• Philippines
9 Nov 08
youre such a good friend, anyway try to stop telling your friend to stop the forbidden relationship, reverse phsycology, at least from the first your always telling him to stop, if he do not stop,well its not your fault, its your friends fault,,
• United States
9 Nov 08
Sounds like this guy is really young. He'll learn, and this is a part of it.