I have a girlfriend,but she angry easily.How do?

China
November 9, 2008 8:23am CST
I think many guy of Mylot have boyfriend or girlfriend.And are you anxiety about it? I'm so sad.My girlfriend is very small,I can't speak loudly with her. Can you help me? Thank you!
1 person likes this
4 responses
• Malaysia
9 Nov 08
Why are you so fond of talking loudly to your girlfriend? If I were you I would be angry too. To me its not your girlfriend's body size that influence whether you can or cannot speak loudly to her. Don't you think speaking aloud to your girlfriend can be similar to shouting, and shouting is something rude. I suggest if you really love her, please take care of her heart. Don't break her heart and you must speak softly to her. That is what we can call being a gentleman. Every girl or woman wants her man to be gentle to her. And not to shout and talk loudly as if she is somebody with pride or something. I hope this advice can help you. Take care.
• China
9 Nov 08
Thank your idea. I think i will become to be a gentleman.
• Japan
9 Nov 08
she's small in height? you shouldn't judge ur gf through her physical aspect..why would you speak loud to her? my "god's gift" is 6'5 I'm 5'2 but he doesn't shout or scream at me... can you not start a communication without shouting? Why would you feel anxious?? if she's an angry girl, you should tell her heart to heart ..do not scream..LOL ur not pampering or growing a kid...or negotiating with a client..that's ur soulmate you're talking..so if you have feelings for each other why fear.?? Anyways, if she's an angry girl, just agree with her... yes and yes to make the arguement done... but doesn't mean you will not talk it out again when she cools down.. if she's acting like a spoiled brat..leave her.... coz that will make you feel burnt out...in a relationship it's a matter of give and take and specially that the two of you are 2 different individuals it can be harder if one is self-centered...if you cannot stand an attitude like that - there are more to come..:-)
• China
9 Nov 08
Thank you. Best wish to you.
@celticeagle (159936)
• Boise, Idaho
24 Nov 08
There shouldn't be any reason for you to raise your voice to your gf. Do you get animated when you discuss things with her? Communicate! Whatever the problem communicate with her about it. Trust, communication and respect is all important.
@swtpareek (650)
• United States
18 Nov 08
I am a very small tempered girl too and would hate if my guy raised his voice on me! it is normal amongst guys to talk in that tone but when you get into a relationship you have to consider the aspect how your partner would like you to behave. Not only you but your girlfriend should also respect your feelings and your nature. So the next time you want to shout out your feelings just think once that the person standing in front of you does not like it at all! Hope this will help you. happy mylotting!