my neighnors are having an affair!

Philippines
November 9, 2008 11:15am CST
i have 2 neighbors whose partners are both working abroad and my neighbors are having an affair. i feel bad for their partners whose working in other country to provide better life for the family. my guy neighbor is a bum and just waits for her wife to send money that he can spend! the guts he has to cheat on his wife! what's worse is that they have children that they can see what they are doing.poor kids! they may not understand it now since they are too young. i feel really bad about this! it makes me sick!
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@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
10 Nov 08
Oh, I understand completely your feeling, gorjuliz. I know that you must feeling really bad about this, seeing the kids that is in the house seeing what their parents did. I believe that you must feel the urge to tell people about this, but I think you should keep yourself away from this trouble, don't get yourself involved. Just try to support the kids and don't let them know something that would ruin their life in future, but no more than that. It is not your problems, actually, and it would be better if it stays that way.
• Philippines
10 Nov 08
i have no intentions of getting into the thing they have. it's their life, they are grown-ups, they know what they are getting into.
• United States
10 Nov 08
That's a tough one... I want to say call the ones overseas, and let them know what's going on. or call the cheaters anonymously and tell them enough to make them think about it... but not enough to let them know who you are. I hate cheaters... but you never know... maybe the other people are doing the same overseas??? The 3rd choice would be to stay out of it!!! I think the first is the most commendable.. and I guess it all comes down to... how good of a friend are you to these people?