Which is the worst thing someone can does for you?

@teka44 (3420)
Brazil
November 9, 2008 1:33pm CST
Hi mylotters! it is something that come to me because each one have different feelings. Some say that is lie. Some say cheat. Some say something else. So each one have his own feelings about the worst thing that someone can does. What about you?
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11 responses
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
10 Nov 08
I can always forgive a person if they lie unto me and give them another chance but for me I always consider for me that cheating is the worst thing that I cannot think of forgiving the person without anything to compromise in the future.....
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
11 Nov 08
Hi iyah. I agree with you. And I never forgive it and never more have confidence in this person. No matter what can happen. Thank you for your response and have a nice day.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
10 Nov 08
Some of the worst thing others can do to me is when they push me to one thing that is not my fault. Saying that I'll be the one who did such thing which is bad. I hate liar, which sometimes I cannot value myself if I am doing such thing that is really bad. I was very seldom got mad to my fellow because I don't want them do to me which I don't like.
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
11 Nov 08
Hi mods. Yes it is bad. I don't like it too. Thanks for your response and have a nice day.
@kaleegirl45 (1515)
• United States
10 Nov 08
Hello teka, How have you been? for me the worst thing would have to be lying or someone talking behind your back. I thinks that's the worst for me.
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
11 Nov 08
Hi Kaleegirl. I'm fine and you dear? yes, I don't like it too. But some persons love to lie and talk behind our back. It is a habit for them that show their character. Thanks for your response dear and have a nice day.
@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
9 Nov 08
Hi teka! The worst somebody can does for me is, putting me down. I can't stand people that putting someone down and make themselves looks the best. Lie for me is different story, because once my trust lost, I would not believe in any words that I would hear from that person ever. Have a nice day.
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
11 Nov 08
Hi dear CJay. I hate it too. I am the same way. Thanks for your response and have a good day.
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
9 Nov 08
My ex boyfriend always cheat and lie to me. I always have the hunch that he's lying but I can not prove it until one day I was able to get into his email account and found out the whole truth. All his secrets. It hurts like hell.
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
11 Nov 08
Hi Shar. Yes it is one of the worst things. Hope you are feeling happy now with a new relationship LOL. Thanks for your response and have a nice day.
• India
9 Nov 08
As a process of growing up,at present,perhaps i don't blame anybody for their wrongdoings,that harmed me a lot,because at the end of the day i gave them the chance,and they utilised it.
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
11 Nov 08
Hi fighter. It is good for you. Thanks for your response and have a good day.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
26 Jan 09
One of the worst things someone can say to me is lying to me and worst thing they can do to me is cheating on me. I can't imagine being able to forgive someone for cheating on me.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
29 Jan 09
i try to be nice to a person and this niceness is looked upon with suspicion(as if i have some hidden personal agenda)and this person goes and tells other people all bad things about me.i think that hurts most.
@kykidd (6812)
• United States
9 Nov 08
The worst thing that my boyfriend could do to me would be to cheat on me. That would just tear me apart, and I in turn would probably tear him apart. That is if I found out. As far as my friends go, the worst thing that I have had someone do is insult me. I can't stand it when they say, I'll call you back and they know they won't. That to me is a huge insult. Even though, you might call it a lie. It means they don't even care about you enough to be honest and say that they will give you a call when they have more time. Sometimes they even lie and say they have to go because their husband just walked in the door. After about the third time of this, you kind of get suspicious. LOL What about you? What do you think is the worst thing that anyone can do to you? Thanks for starting this discussion, and have a great day!
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
11 Nov 08
Hi kykidd. I agree with you that it is one of the worst things. Thanks for your response and have a nice day.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
9 Nov 08
i hate to be lied to. can't stand that . it's very unnessary. the truth will always do better.
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
11 Nov 08
Hi dear friend. Yes you are right. Me too can't stand lies and I prefer the truth always however it hurt. Thanks for the response and have a nice day.
@nadooa247 (1096)
• United States
9 Nov 08
putting me down, demeaning me. That could be verbally through lies or through actions. If my husband cheated on me that would certainly fall into that category. If a friend blew me off with some excuse only to find out 10 minutes later that she did so for someone else it would be there. Why? Just let me know honestly. If he feels he has to cheat on me let me know you are unhappy and we either work on it or each goes to find their own happiness. That is what the worst thing anyone can do... demean me.
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
11 Nov 08
Hi nadooa. Yes it hurt so much. But all of us feel this kind of things early or later in life. Thanks for your response and have a nice day.