things you do when in love

@efarmer (184)
November 12, 2008 7:46am CST
hey what do you think, is it ok to do everything that your lover wants you to do? does that cause your lover to esteem you any less?
5 responses
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
13 Nov 08
i'm willing to do anything for love!hahahah i've been in several relationships, for my first 4 relationships i can say that am still shy to show my feelings, am still afraid to give my full trust to my partner and those relationships last only for less than 3 months. from there i learned, i told to myself that on my next relationship i'll give my all, currently am in a two year & 10 months relationship with no regrets in giving my all to my partner.
@efarmer (184)
13 Nov 08
yeah i am all for it too
@zhengyu (61)
• China
13 Nov 08
I was glad to do what my love wanted me to do ! But she won't let me do anything ,because she has abandoned me . It was really a disappointment .
@efarmer (184)
13 Nov 08
ahh that was sad. maybe she didnt deserve you after all
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
13 Nov 08
I do everything and anything to make my partner happy. I take care of him. I have done everything to my ex boyfriend that I then realized it doesn't make me happy anymore. And he's abusing my love. I gave up and I never regret it at all.
@efarmer (184)
13 Nov 08
i guess we just need to take care who we are giving our everything to. bcoz the more we invest the more we lose, isnt it. and besides if making someone is not making us happy then what is the point anyway
@Hendi89 (10)
• Malaysia
12 Nov 08
i think, if we falling in love with other people which we love very much. we can do anything, and also with a happines feeling. if your love asked to help her/him. definitely we will do as we can, and try do do all the best for him/her.
@efarmer (184)
13 Nov 08
you seem to be good person hendi89. but it is true that we would like to please the person we love but certainly not at the cost of losing ourselves
• Indonesia
12 Nov 08
i think that is so ok. because i want him to do what i want him to do as well. But, sometimes i am kind of girl who waits for his initiatives, hopes that he could read my mind and do what i want and need without asking him. oftentimes, it doesn't work. so i guess i can just tell him what i am feeling and what i want him to do.
@efarmer (184)
12 Nov 08
oh yeah thats true isnt it? we girls keep thinking that they will read our minds and get it but they dont and yet we still dont stop thinking that way. funny eh