How deep is your love?

@leateagee (3667)
China
November 13, 2008 8:37am CST
Love moves in mysterious ways. Some people fall in love the moment they see each other. For others it will take a long time to truly give in. Some have this traditional ways of knowing and courting. They say that too easy or fast to get is too easy or fast to lose. But love is blind. We really cannot tell how the heart works. The above mentioned opinion are the processes of love. So, people are in-love already. We can see from their eyes, gestures, words, mood, attitudes and personality in general that there is love in the air. Maintaining its strength and making it last long are my concerns. How does a person show how deep he/she love his/her lover? What do you do/say/give or whatever it is to keep a romantic relationship last? How do you prove to your lover that rain or shine you'll stay together? I need advice my friends. Thank you smuch in advance.
6 responses
@swtpareek (650)
• United States
16 Nov 08
When you are in love you go through a different sort of divine feeling. Only his one mere glance makes you happy and you feel an emptiness if you have not seen him for even a single day! Dear Leateagee you just need to count on him, and your love bond will strengthen. Do say "I Love You" once in a while. it really works. The main point is to have trust on each other and be with each other. Being lovers is synonymous to being best friends! Be his best buddy and the love bond will be much more deep. Hope my little advice will help you!
@leateagee (3667)
• China
16 Nov 08
That is so sweet. Yes your piece of advice made me smile. Saying "I love you" once in awhile. We do but sometimes it is obligatory so I just say it when I feel it. I am dong my best to be his best buddy. Thank you so much for sharing your valuable opinion. Take care. Happy every day!!!
13 Nov 08
Hi leateagee, Dear friend are you in love? I met my husband at work and within a fews weeks of meeting him I asked him out, then within six months I asked him to marry me, now we have been married for over 28 years. I do not feel the same way about him as when I fist met him but its more of a partneship and friendship, you listen to each other and when you are apart you miss each other and when you are in a crowd you stay near each other and your eyes will meet when you are talking to others, then as years go by you know you don't have to talk so much but you know you are both there for each other. You still have your own space as well to do your own things in life with frends. I hope you will find your own true love, unless you have already found him. Hugs. Tamara
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@leateagee (3667)
• China
16 Nov 08
Yes I am my friend. But we are very far from each other. There is trust and faith that we will still at the end. Found my true love??? I don't know, I can't answer that because I don't feel like a teenager that is longing for him every minute. I am too occupied with work that sometimes I forgot to say goodnight or greet him in the morning. I wish I am just busy. But we are best friends. Hugs to you too. Lea
@meizyty (190)
• Indonesia
13 Nov 08
I am falling love with my husband now at the first sight. To prove your lover you must follow your heart say or your heart feeling because love insight your heart.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
14 Nov 08
That's so nice. Following what the heart feels. But you know osmetimes, the heart decieves us. And there are outside influences that affect our feelings and decision. Thank you so much for responding. Take care =)
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
19 Nov 08
it takes me a long time to fall in love. everything happens natural. it is the chemistry of two people who belong together. and they come together into one.
@glords (2614)
• United States
16 Nov 08
I think if a person is concerned about showing love they are probably showing it a million small ways everyday. I fall more in love with my husband every day, and with the small services and sacrifices he makes for our family, I know he loves me too. When we were young we used to send each other love notes. Now I think we live our lives to make each other happy. I will never forget how my husband carried my father up and down the stairs each day when my father was too sick to walk. I'll never forget how he spent his days off at the hospital with me, or even how he agreed to marry me in a hospital so that my father could be there. I wont forget how he took care of me when I was sooo sick after the birth of our child, or how he plays peek a boo with him every day after work. I think it is the small things that really serve as a testament of your love. Im sure you are doing them everyday.
• Netherlands
13 Nov 08
I met this girl about 7 years ago. I liked her first time I saw her and she also liked me. We quickly became good friends but we didn't become lovers. At that time I already had a girl which I truely loved my soul with and I would stay loyal and never cheat her. Although after a three year relationship she cheated on me and I became depressive. This girl I met 7 years ago helped me pull out the dark hole I was stuck in and we became lovers very quickly. You just have to keep counting on each other. Help the other person when they need help. Give them space if they need space. Listen to each other is very important. In every relationship you get fights and issues and I suggest to talk about it in a very calm way. There's no need to shout and yell at each other. That won't help anyone, would it? Well maybe a neighbour that's too late for work and is still sleeping so your yelling wakes him up. But anyway, I write songs or poems for my girlfriend and it makes her happy and smile. She does the same thing to me. She also helps me with homework whenever she can and I do the same thing for her. Hope that helps a little bit?
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@leateagee (3667)
• China
14 Nov 08
Indeed it help. You are very romantic person. Indeed I do agree with you that proper communication helps a lot in maintaining a good relationship. It is very difficult to lose trust so being honest and not cheating must be avoided. Giving space, listening and helping each other are good points. Thank you so much for your valuable response. Take care =)