My Boyfriend Cheated On ME, Should I Forgive??????????b

India
November 14, 2008 12:12pm CST
My Boyfriend cheated on me, with a hooker he says its a booty call thing it happened weeks ago and he never said a thing, And whenever we fight and i bring it up he says its because i couldn't satisfy him, and he begs me to forgive him now? He says he's sorry and that he loves me, but should I?????????
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• United States
14 Nov 08
If you keep fighting and it keeps coming up this would mean that you're not ready to forgive it. I think that if you really want to make it work you need to have a conversation with him about it but have someone else there who is neutral to the situation and that won't take side to mediate it. Basically the thing as counseling, but cheaper if you can find someone else to help you with it. At the end you'll hopefully have everything in the open and spoken about with the situation and then you can forgive him and know if to move on or just not.
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@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
14 Nov 08
You don't have to if you don't want to. He did a mistake, and if he wanted another chance it is really up to you whether you want to give him the second chance or not. Don't feel forced to give him a chance, and still use your logic. There are many reasons why someone is cheating, and seeing your case, I don't think he deserves you. By him saying that you could not satisfy him, it means that he would not be able to be satisfied forever. Good luck. Take your time to think about that, don't be in a rush, if he really loves you he would wait
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@fasttalker (2796)
• United States
14 Nov 08
If it keeps coming up then obvously you are having a hard time letting it go (understandably). Until this issue is resolved between the two of you you cannot move on. And it may be that you can't let it go. He made the mistake not you so don't guilt yourself into allowing him another chance. Only you can allow that chance within yourself and if you can't then it's time to move on without him.
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• New Zealand
15 Nov 08
Hi Louise18, I think it is entirely up to you what you should do...If they do it once, they'll do it again...Don't give him any chances...He does not deserve it...Mine did that whilst I was carrying our child...They say they are sorry...But they aren't...Save yourself time and heartache...Get rid of him while your heart is strong enough to!...The HOOKER thing...It's not her fault either...Whatever may have occurred with the hooker...She just see's your boyfriend as 'MONEY'...So she is not a threat, if you decided to stay with the idiot...If you cannot see past this without crying or getting upset, then finish it!
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