why we feel tired?
November 17, 2008 5:23am CST
MY boyfriend with me have been together more than 1 year,but now we feel tired each other,i don't want to see him ,and i think he has the same feeling .and then he take some excese outsaide ,even didn't go home.i don't mind whatever he want to do ,but i hate to being lied ~~~
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22 Nov 08
Sounds like the honeymoon is over. Watch the warning signs. You two just might not be compatible. Or you may need to do something to spice up your relationship. If it starts getting real bad, break up with him and find somebody else that you can get along with.
18 Nov 08
Well, I guess both of you need some space to breath.. Maybe, there's something in the relationship don't work anymore like the sparkle or trust.. I think your love for your boyfriend isn't that strong because you get tired of loving him same as him on the other hand.. Try to give each other some space so that you will be able to realize whether you still want him in your life or end it already.. It is hard to stay in the relationship if there is gap between the two of you since the more misunderstanding and fights will encounter.. So, the best thing that both of you can do is to give some space and analyze carefully whether you still love each other.. I believe that when you love that person very much you won't get tired loving him and being in the relationship.. I have been in a relationship for almost 4 year and I didn't get tired of loving him and being in the relationship.. Even as for now we are in a long distance relationship.. We are always try to be strong and reach each other for communication and telling each other that we love and miss each other already.. It is hard to be in a long distance relationship but if both of you love each other and hold strong in the relationship then everything will be fine and everything will work out even though sometimes it is impossible.. I hope you will be able to solve your problem with your boyfriend..Happy posting!
17 Nov 08
Is this "familiarity breeds contempt" or are u truly bored sick of each other and dont see any future for you two together? if its the second case, maybe its time to call it off and have a serious open discussion with your friend and close things..if its so mutual, it should not be too hard. Good luck whatever u decide!
17 Nov 08
hi sogna, i had a relationship with my husband for 14 year before getting married , yes we were boared with each other and sometimes hated to see each others face but we had something called love .. i am a very romantic person, i will try all ways to revive my relationship with him ... instead of looking into all the negative aspect on the relationship, try thinking of the good fun moments that you both shared and revive it cheers
17 Nov 08
i think it was not love that brought you together in the first place. think it over, i might be correct. there's no reason to prolong the agony and live with lies the rest of your lives. talk it over, heart to heart. be honest. this way, i guess, the parting will not be hurting and you'll stay friends.