Would You Cheat On Someone You Were In Love With?

United States
November 17, 2008 6:08pm CST
I don't believe that if you are truly in love with someone that you would cheat on them. I've never been in love with someone and cheated on him, I've never even been in love and thought about cheating on him. I've been faithful to every man that I've ever been in love with and even been faithful to a few that I wasn't in love with. So, in your opinion, do you think you can be in love with someone and cheat on them?
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@jzjqdkd (273)
• China
18 Nov 08
when i get in love with someone, i never cheat on her, and until now i only love one girl,she used to be my girlfriend , though she had broken up with me, but in my inner heart, i still love her , when i was with her, i never lied to her, what i said was always from my heart, i never cheat on her.because she is my true love,even she leaves me.
@messageme (2821)
• United States
18 Nov 08
isn't that the way it usually goes? the honest and loyal ones are the ones left in the dust? I have been there many times.
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@jzjqdkd (273)
• China
23 Nov 08
Maybe it is,but no matter what happens, i won't lie or cheat on the person I love.Though she may leave me in dust,I won't desert her,i would rather let her do the wrong thing to me, I still stay there loyal to her.it is my biggest short point,and I have to.
@tlb0822 (1410)
• United States
18 Nov 08
I don't think that if you truly love some one that you could cheat on them. My fiance and I have been together for two years, and we both have been completlely faithful to one another. Of course there have been suspicions on my behalf that he was cheating, but it is because I am a very very jealous person. I think to be in love is so powerful, and that your heart knows that it is wrong to cheat. I would never cheat on my fiance, not for any amount of money. I would never destroy my family like that. So overall I don't think that you could truly be in love with someone and cheat on them.
@ericajoyce (1746)
• Philippines
19 Nov 08
Hello singlemommy. That is the one thing that I would never do in my life. If I really love my partner, I will do everything to stay loyal and faithful to him. If I really love my partner why would I cheat on him? A lot of people nowadays most especially guys, tell their partner that he loves her, but then you found out that he's cheating on you. What is the purpose of saying you love her when you plan on cheating on her?
@messageme (2821)
• United States
18 Nov 08
I am not a cheatter! I believe if you truely love someone you wouldn't even look at another let alone sleep with them. I am in love and I don't even think about anything with anyone else but the man I am with. I can say I have never lied to him either.
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• Philippines
20 Nov 08
I guess if you can cheat with the one you love, perhaps i don't think he/she is someone you're truly love with. Being in love is a course that It is just him or her in your life no one else, it's like you don't get attracted to anybody else, you can admire someone but thats it. As for me, I don't or never have cheated with someone i have been in a relationship with. I treat peple how I want to be treated.
@memoo_06 (46)
• Philippines
19 Nov 08
Of course not! How can you say you love the person if you are cheating on him/her? You must be faithful with the one you love because if you really do love him/her, you will take care of the love, trust and respect that he/she entrusted to you.
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
18 Nov 08
I dont know what makes a person cheat . i believe when you find the right person and it true love that yes a person will be faithful . trust for me is everything and my fiance has been my bestfriend and life for 8 years and we never had cheated and we have been thru tough times , but ya been each others rock . i know some people out there that have cheated have been inlove with the person and it was the biggest mistake , but what drives a person to that it makes me wonder . i know many times a person is not mature enough . i dont know what makes me think with the right person things will be so much better . who knows really !
• India
18 Nov 08
I am not like those people who cheat someone. That people real bad they can not understand anybody feeling. People respect only good person.