Safer side of LOVE ... is it possible to have it?
November 18, 2008 5:06am CST
I have asked a lot of persons who are into relationships, particularly deep seeded ones, "Is loving someone really involves being hurt at times? Is there a safe way to evade these hurts." Or do you believe that in loving someone you have to accept that you are going to be hurt in the long run...?
18 Nov 08
Safer side of love is possible if you want to... :) I'm not an expert in regards to this but I guess when there is LOVE, you are in safe. I don't know how to expound it but that's really is....hehehe Is loving someone really involves being hurt? YES... Safer side of love doesn't mean that your are free from heartaches. And I guess its safer to hurt for love than nothing. (.. wondering ..)
18 Nov 08
i guess when you involved with loving someone, you are also risking your own life to be hurt too. you cannot be falling in love and not be hurt in return. i would like to direct you to the love of Jesus to the entire humanity. HE loves us all, and what did He get from us? only hurts and pains.. and that should explain everything now.. when you love, then you are open to being hurt too. there is no safer way in love. because love is equated with being hurt too.. hehe.. but you just have to seetle it to your mind to love unconditionally. that is the love of JESUS too. HE loves unconditionally, that is why even though HE is being hurt, HE still continued. HE persevered in loving. as the Bible defined Love; Love perseveres.... it never fails...
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18 Nov 08
Blah- i think that during a relationship, you may be hurt, by little things your partner may do. People always hurt each other, even if its something spiteful they say because they're angry. I dont accept the fact im going to be hurt in the long run. Because then i just think negatively and wonder why im even with the person if i think they'd do that. Love is in direct correlation with pain. If you dont want pain- you dont love.