How do I handle a stinchy/money-minded partner?

United States
November 20, 2008 7:09pm CST
Hi All, My husband is good in all aspects except one.. He is very stinchy.. He hates spending money, be it clothes, trendy watches or anything for that reason.. I am not working and I have to rely on him for every single thing i buy.. Whatever I buy for me, be it new clothes or something for home decoration, he will be against it and stop me from buying such things.. He questions me for every single penny i spend..Adding to my woes, all my friends have husbands who spend for them like anything.. Please suggest me ways to change him and share your experiences too... Akila
1 response
@cishi1230 (197)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
I think every couple should have an open communication about everything that covers their marriage. Reality bites that sometimes money becomes a big issue which sometimes when you're not able to resolve your differences it can lead to separation. Your husband is just being practical, especially now that economic crisis hits the whole world everyone should be responsible in handling their finances. Just try to understand him more, listen to his reasons why he doesn't want to spend. If you think he got a point then it will surely benefit you both. I would suggest if you could start earning your own money by doing some online job. If you're good with writing then why not try blogging and add some affiliate programs to it.
• United States
21 Nov 08
Hi, thanks for your comments.. Yeah, thats why I am here trying to make money online..Any suggestions about blogging.. Any websites that would be of help? Akila