Friends or Family?

Philippines
November 21, 2008 9:42am CST
I have a friend who only stays at home whenever she's sick and you can never see her at her own place when she's strong as a carabao...after working,she'll go home and change and you can never see her anymore.She's always reprimanded by her parents but nothing has changed. As her friend I wanted her to know how important our Family is to us.Please help me explain it to her without offending her.Thanks.......
2 responses
• United States
21 Nov 08
Something like this makes me wonder why she doesn't want to stay at home. When I was a kid and my stepdad would call me horrible names you bet I didn't want to be at home! You should talk to your friend find out why she doesn't want to be with her family.
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
it's really sad when people do not feel comfortable in their own home. how can you even call it a home if you feel you "have" to run away from it all the time? i hope that it's just a phase for your friend, and that like all phases, it'll change in time...but your frined will really need to resolve her issues at home. she would have to face her problems head on because running away from it will not help her, it would only make matters worse. if she really is your friend, you would be able to tell her anything and everything and she would be able to take it without offense. it really just depends on how you tell her. so let her know your thoughts, just choose your words carefully and let it come out as naturally as possible. as long as it's heartfelt, i'm sure she will understand, and hopefully, she will take your advice.