i miss my father he died.........

Croatia (Hrvatska)
November 21, 2008 5:49pm CST
Can u help me and other people who lost their parents or dear people to deal with that? My father died 3 years ago and i can tell that i am not ok even now, not when i remember what i lost. I am catolic so i know that hes soul is good now but i just miss him. Its so hard and life can be very hard sometimes but can u belive , all our suffers, we can use tham to be stronger, better person, and all that............. just to be ok. Do you understand?
2 people like this
2 responses
• United States
21 Nov 08
i completly nderstan . even though i have not lost a parent i have lost my grandmother and i miss her DEARLY . i know it is hareder to lose a parent but just turn to god and put everything in his hand and he will not give you no more tahn you can handle . go to gravesite and talk to your dad you know he is watching you and can hear every word you say go everyday if it make you feel better . i went to my aunts all the time just to talk .
1 person likes this
• Netherlands
21 Nov 08
Your absolutely right. A loss makes you stronger, even though it might feel like your world collapsed and a large energy if taken from you. What I do is when someone passes away I tell myself and other people that person is just on a holiday trip for a while and we will meet soon. Keep your head up and focus on life is what's important too! Try to let him go, which is probaly the hardest part for everyone. I'm sure your father is proud of you and want you to make best of your life.
1 person likes this