Swinging / myLot

Philippines

November 22, 2008 11:26pm CST

If given a chance to attend swinger parties, would you share your partner to someone else in exchange for hers or his? I haven't experienced this, but I saw these sort of things in the internet and it kinda bewildered me because its somehow extreme already for my guts. I just don't get the idea when you can see your partner doing it with another person. However, you'll be given the same chance like the same thing as well. So it will somehow break the jealousy in that particular time. Though what about the aftermath of things? Will it break or make the relationship?

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rosesthorns14

@rosesthorns14 (803)

• Philippines

23 Nov 08

Never tried the swinging thing. Never will do it in the future. If a couple agreed to each other that they wanted to swing together with other couples, they wouldn't have a problem if both are open-minded to other things, just to give way to spice up their marriage life. If jealousy has set in, the swing thing won't fit in the marriage life of the couple. If a partner cheats, this will break his/her marital relationship with his/her partner.

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@arjay45 (9)

• Canada

23 Nov 08

I had fantasized about this quite a few times,but then again thinking of what would happen after scares the hell out of me because doing something irreversible is something that must be given a lot thoughts before going for it especially if it involves the person you love most.Plus the possibilty of catching STD.

vicki2876

@vicki2876 (5636)

• Canada

23 Nov 08

I would not do it with my partner. We have been together for 12 years but I think it would leave too much open for misunderstandings and confusion for us. I don't think he would like to see me being pleasured by another man at all. I wouldn't like to see that either. But that is how our relationship is and I am sure other relationships are very happy and secure that can have a swinger lifestyle and it not be a problem. I think both partners would have to be into it, in order for it to work. Not just one and the other is doing it only to please them.

xlinzixx

@xlinzixx (510)

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23 Nov 08

i wouldnt go to a swingers party, as i used to go out with someone who was into all that and even though we never attended any parties or met up with any other couples it still caused a lot of jealousy and arguments in our reltionship.

jags420

@jags420 (189)

• India

23 Nov 08

it is an awful idea to me. but some find it awesome. this is for them who do not love their partners. for them, there partners are just show pieces. they want them to show off. so, with lesser the clothes, the better i think..