I broke up with my girlfriend, tonight.

China
November 23, 2008 9:40am CST
I love my girlfeind. We had a lot of happy time together. She is good girl, nice, considerate, lovely except one thing I can't stand. She's got eccentric temper sometimes does some unreasonalbe thing and say someting without her brain regardless of other people's feeling. We often argued about it. And she knew her temper very well and promised she would try her best to control it last week. We have a peaceful week until tonight. Evething went back to the old time, she couldn't control her temper duo to one little thing though she tried her best. So we have no choice. It's hard to change one's temper, which you can tell from people around you. We love each other, but we can't stay together happily. painful broke up.
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• China
24 Nov 08
i'm sorry to hear that,my friend.i think it is very hard to change one person,now that you couldn't get along with each other,broke up maybe a good choose.i ensure a girl more fit of you waiting for you at distant.happy every day!
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• China
24 Nov 08
thanks pal, hope you hpayy every day
• Canada
23 Nov 08
i'm sorry to hear about your break-up. i know how painful that can be. i've had quite a few in my time. i wish you the best in the future.
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• China
24 Nov 08
thanks, pal. I could get through it like you.
• Philippines
23 Nov 08
I'm sorry to hear that...its hard to change one person..its either we live with it or just drop it..i had been on an on and off relationship because of this matter..both of us had the same temper problem..he gets easily annoyed and can say bad things towards me..even with just the slightest you could ever imagine...vise versa, i can be the same..whenever i feel like this is going to no where and that it is not a healthy relationship anymore we break up and after days of not being together we realize we miss each other and the fights..we love each other no doubt so we decided to just live with it because the more you force to change it the more it gets even worst
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• China
24 Nov 08
thank your for your advice. You seemed had the same problem, but happy ending.
• United States
25 Nov 08
painful break up.. ummm. only for a day, a week or a month?? i know you guys will be together again
• China
26 Nov 08
you seem very confident that we will be together again, let's see. thanks anyway
• United States
26 Nov 08
best of luck.
• Qatar
23 Nov 08
hi garfield_zhou this is too sad its not that easy to broke up with someone whom u really love a lot but with differences, its uncontrolable im praying that u will be back in each others arm inspite of this is there any 2nd chance?
• China
24 Nov 08
tkank you for your good wishes, but this is the second chance we gave each other. I don't think we could make it.
• China
23 Nov 08
If you still love your girlfriend ,I think you should spend more time to communicate with her, that will make you know her well.,know the real reason why she did that. It can avoid some quarrel unnecessary .when we have quarrel ,that just because we couldn't know each other better. believe yourself ,nothing is impossible if you do .
• China
24 Nov 08
thank you for your encouragement.