What will you do when you find your goodfriend betrays you?

@Elvali (68)
China
November 26, 2008 9:16am CST
Recently,I found myself so stupid and deceived by my roommates whom I always believe in.She stole another roommate's bank card and withdrew all the money in it.After I told her that we had told school's secury department and the thief will be another girl we had always suspected,she told us it was her who stole it.We were all shocked and she said she didn't know what she was doing at that monent and asked for our forgiveness. I can't describe how sad I was at that monent and I found I knew little about her and I couldn't imagine how shadowy her heart might be. Now the relationship and atmosphere in our dormitry are so strange and unnatural.We won't come back to the happy days in the past. She promised that she would change the dormitry next semester. What can I do?
1 response
@jessi0887 (2788)
• United States
26 Nov 08
If she is your friend you have to give her a chance to redeem herself. I had a friend a year ago. We are still friends. I had a crush on this guy for 5 or more years. She knew i liked him. He even liked me, but we just never did anything. She ended up sleeping with him and telling me everything. I ignored her for a week, but gave up the conflict. I just know how she is now and I watch my back.
@Elvali (68)
• China
27 Nov 08
Well,it's good to know you are still friends.At least she just didn't want to hurt you so she lied to you.But the girl whom I said is so complicated that I can't figure out which sentence she said was true.Till now I have to concince myself that we have never been true friends from the bottom of her heart.I should say all she has done is for her own interest.I don't want to bother myself with anything of her.