confused with my friends.
By alleroid16
@alleroid16 (943)
Philippines
November 26, 2008 3:31pm CST
did you ever get confused with you friends? which you don't know if you can put your trust on them?
well, yeah. I'm so very confused to 3 of my friends, i don't know if I'm going to put all my trust on them. we often have some little arguments which sometimes, i can't fight and just zip my mouth, i just did that because i really don't want to hurt them. i'm not a type of person that will do confrontation on my friends. well, as of now, i really hate them, but at the same time i do love them.
how about you?
happy mylotting!
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6 responses
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
26 Nov 08
I am afraid I don't fully trust anyone these days after things that my so called best friends have dont to me in the past, I came to the conclusion no-one really knows anyone 100% and for this reason no-one gets 100% trust from me...I have been hurt too much by people i called my best friends..
@alleroid16 (943)
• Philippines
26 Nov 08
uh, good for you. maybe i should try what you are doing now.maybe i don't need to put all my trust on them, so that i wouldn't get hurt too much. but sometimes, i easily trust a friend and i easily forgive. hays.
happy mylotting!
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@gemwang (26)
• China
27 Nov 08
Someone treat me very kind and i very appreciate him or her ,then he must be my friend.And one who is attract me,and he is also kind to me ,he must be my friend.I think friend is a realation between me and friend ,we attract each other ,and feel happy when we together.I am grateful for my friend bring happy and help to me .So when we have appreciative in our heart,everything is ok,there will be no "problem".
@alleroid16 (943)
• Philippines
27 Nov 08
good for you. i'm very confused to some of my friends. i don't know if they were true to me, or they were just using me. they don't know if they hurt me or not. i don't show to them if I'm hurt by them just really want them to be happy with them.
happy mylotting!
@alleroid16 (943)
• Philippines
5 Dec 08
yeah. i do really love my friends, but i have difficulty in communicating and understanding their attitude. but i do really love them, and i do really accept them for who they are and who they are not. well, i know that i need to accept the fact that, not all of them will be with me for long. but i do hope that i'm with them forever.
happy mylotting!
@gemwang (26)
• China
1 Dec 08
I believe that you really love your friends because you care about them and care about what they think.This is a true feeling of you.As they treat you as good friend,they must care you ,too.I think they love you ,so they can and like to put their true character out in front of you.
Enjoy today's life!!
@feathers26 (865)
• Philippines
13 Apr 09
I think we have some similarities I don't
confront my friends.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
27 Nov 08
That was happened to me last time one of my friends here in my place where I lived. She always want to make an argue with us that's why I hate her too. If their behavior is like that we really get confused if we can trust them or if we can rely to their loyalty. Sometimes they are the one who make bad to us which I hated most. As of now before I trust them I make sure to myself I like them. Trusted friend is very important.
@alleroid16 (943)
• Philippines
27 Nov 08
yeah. i really like my friend but i the same time i hat her too. i don't know why. but i do get along well nowadays with her, a little arguments, but i think we understand each other. :)
happy mylotting!
@alleroid16 (943)
• Philippines
27 Nov 08
yeah. it's really very hard to trust people nowadays, people now are very moody, which you don't know what are their real attitude, or they are just pretending.
happy mylotting!
@hustonphotography (569)
• United States
4 Apr 09
You don't have to fully trust your friends to be friends with them. I always hold back. This keeps you safe. Just hang out with them and enjoy them. You don't have to put all your faith in them for that. If you do you will be dissappointed. People are not perfect. Always remember that.
