how would you react when a girl proposes you????

India
December 1, 2008 2:21am CST
hiiiii...guys....i have a friend and we know each other for a few years now..but she shas suddenly come upto me and proposed..i dint no how to react...so help me get out of this........and say if u have faced any such situation?
6 responses
• Philippines
1 Dec 08
The best thing to do is to be true, tell her what you feel rather than avoiding her. If you have feelings for her then thats a new relationship but before doing some actions be certain. Hope ur fine!!..=)
@UK_Shree (3603)
1 Dec 08
Well you haven't said how you feel about her, but judging from your post I am guessing that you are not interested in this girl. I think the best thing to do is sit down with her and just be honest about how you feel. Let her know that you are flattered that she feels this way about you and tell her as nicely as you can that you do not feel the same way. If she is a really true friend, she will respect how you feel and hopefully the friendship that you have with each other can continue. Good luck with sorting it out!
@subha12 (18441)
• India
1 Dec 08
I am woman myself. so it would be oyther way round. I would have felkt surprised if any friend proposes me. it will take some time to react.
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
1 Dec 08
well of course what's important is that you tell her how you feel. Do you like her as well? Or do you just like her as a friend. Oooh...your in a pretty complicated situation my friend. This will definitely affect your friendship. Good luck!
@dinkan53 (99)
• Ukraine
1 Dec 08
Oh,man only in films i saw this kind of situations.Here nobody can help you.If you got some feelings to her just tell it.You have to take a decision alone man bcos its your life.
• Philippines
1 Dec 08
It is indeed a complicated situation for you. However, the worst thing for you to do would be to avoid this person or to show any uncertainty on your end because she proposed to you. You must take it easily, and just be open to showing her what you really feel. If you want to just remain as friends, then I believe you should be able to tell her how you feel in a way that would not put her down or make her feel unimportant to you. I've gone through that once, and while it was very unusual, I found it to be flattering that a girl would take the initiative just to be close to me.