proving a point.

United States
December 3, 2008 11:21am CST
Have any of you ever done something just to prove a point to your husband? My husband and I are both on facebook, not a big deal actully it is fun. Most of the time. I have my friends he has his and we both have friends in common. A few weeks ago he was in Vegas at a conference. He was not having a good time so he played on facebook as much as possible. the next thing I know he was friends with all of these girls from school. I could understand it if they were friends in high school but they weren't really they are friends from grade school. I use to have to hear about these girls from his mom which is probably why I don't really care for them. Anyway so I finnally said something to him about it and he said it was no big deal. When I said that if I were friends with the guys from high school he wouldn't like it. He replied I don't care. If I thought that was true then it wouldn't matter. So to prove a point I am now friends with the only male I want to stay in contact with from high school. He hasn't said anything yet but it was yesterday when I made friends with him. I know I probably shouldn't have done this but I should get to have my friends to even if he doesn't care for them. What do you think? Have you ever tried to prove a point to your husband?
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@afparks (49)
• United States
3 Dec 08
Yes i did before and he actually get the point. though it almost ruin our marriage.
• United States
3 Dec 08
thank you for your comment. I am sorry to hear about your marriage, I hope it is fine now. I am not worried about my marrige if I was I would not have done this.
• United States
4 Dec 08
No we're fine now after he got the point, lol.
• United States
6 Dec 08
I am glad to hear that.
@bunmi2501 (465)
• Nigeria
4 Dec 08
Sometimes when men say things like "I really dont care", they are just trying to justify their actions and hide from being faulted, you need to understand your husband's mood and dont make him feel you are monitoring him, they just dont like that. Pray you have the wisdom to attend to this matter. God bless your marriage.
• United States
4 Dec 08
He knows I am not monitoring him. He told me about it. Thank you for your response.