my friend is not that friendly to me anymore

Philippines
December 4, 2008 1:50am CST
waaa why is he not that friendly to me anymore...he jokes at me still but it's like he is either conscious/sad or like it's not anymore the way he used to joke at me and I missed that. I can't confront him about it because It would be too awkward. When I am near, it's as if he can't wait for me to be out of his way but when he is far away, he looks at me as if he likes to be near. I don't understand him at all. And one more thing, there was this time that I look at his direction and then he looked at my direction and then he looked down and then had this smile on his face. He's so confusing. It doesn't help that my friends tease me with another guy that is our teacher coz this teacher (they said) likes me because he often calls my name.
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@krfanlim (232)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 08
Probably because he starts to feel shy when he's with you. That probably means also that he likes you?? It happens, you know, these things. For as such, i'm a boy, but this very good female friend of mine is also beginning to turn a cold shoulder towards me. However, it's not because either one of us started to develop feelings for each other, but it's just because we kinda 'exhausted' our chat topics.
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
coz usually, we joke and fight and now..he jokes back only sometimes and not anymore that much
@krfanlim (232)
• Malaysia
4 Dec 08
Yes, it does happens. Life is that cruel that sometimes, we can't even ask for justification because we're afraid things might turn out awkward, then negatively affect the relationship further. :(
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
5 Dec 08
U are already 18yrs old now.. It's time to be more matured.. U not are 16 or younger anymore.. TEasing is a childish thing to do, and that it can even affect u?? I guess, maybe u are the one with problem, and not the guy.. Because u just dun wanna clear things up.. IN the guy's mind, i guess he's thinking that u want want attention.. Thus he is also feeling confused in himself if he actually made the right decision..
• Philippines
5 Dec 08
i don't understand..It's not me who teased or what..it's my classmates who teased me to the teacher and so i don't have any hold to that...although i keep on telling them to stop it.
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• India
4 Dec 08
well i think he's nervous whn he is arnd u n whn he is far he likes u i thnk hes really confused wht to do ask him if u can help in anyway
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• Philippines
4 Dec 08
i can't do that, he might think im weird or what