love

December 4, 2008 12:35pm CST
are you happy with your significant other? i seen that there are alot of people together that arent happy. do you tell them when you have a problem or just let it slide. you shouldnt be living with someone if you are unhappy. it is important that you talk to your spouse and let them know how you feel or the problems you have wiht each other!-
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6 responses
• Puerto Rico
4 Dec 08
to be happy you have to tell are your feelings to each other. communication is an important part of the relationship.
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@gtdonna (1740)
4 Dec 08
I so agree with you about not living with someone you are not happy with. Yet, so many people are in unhappy relationships because for one reason or the other they feel they can make the other individual change and if that change occur they will be happy. Personally, if I am not happy about something in my relaitonship I am going to let you know. Sorry, life is too short to spend time being unhappy!
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@miamhae (339)
• Philippines
4 Dec 08
Love only grows when their is understanding, communication and trust. Without this three in your relationship you should not continue because it just turning to be unhappy relationship. Most couple feel unhappy because their communication are not open well. I always talk my fiance about what I feel to any things he do for me, and I always asked him if the thing I do was okey for him.... open communication are so important.... Understanding for each other specially in the time when someone being in feel low in her/his life.... Trust to a partner are also very important, without trust each other seem no love.... Have a nice day
4 Dec 08
We have been married for 39 years. they have not always been happy years. You have to talk out your problems. If you do not talk you will not be happy. It is good to share a problem.
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
5 Dec 08
I think their is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Part of loving sometimes is pain, and loneliness, to make the relationship gets stronger. Well I just keep it slide specially when I feel it's just a day that will pass by. Sometimes you have to be alone just to make you think about your self. Sometimes it's only you who have a problem to your self not your partner. So be it that way. Time will just solve the problem it self. Now if the problem is within us both I think that is the time I will open up, what I feel, just for us to make the relationship last. Have a nice day to you!
@yukyrob (167)
• Philippines
5 Dec 08
yes, i am ery much happy with my significant other. they way we took care of each other makes me really glad. whenever we met with problems. we deal with it lightly with prayers. i think it is really good when you have somebody on your side to go on through the difficulties of life.