A cancer, how to comfort?

China
December 4, 2008 8:42pm CST
Hi, everyone. My good friend has a cancer. I want to Say a few words to comfort him. How to do it? If anybody has the best mothed to resolve the cancer.
3 responses
@mimpi1911 (25454)
• India
5 Dec 08
I am sorry to hear this metababy. I know how it feels. My uncle has been diagnosed with cancer last month and since then we have been struggling to comfort him. Its hard, hard indeed! For you never know what's going to work. Some times your concern helps and some other times the same concern gets him emotional. Then there are people around who with their best intention hurt him more. There are certain things we must not tell but people are there who do not know. A healthy relationship between a survivor and caregiver is very important. I would ask you to be there with him. BEING there helps and when you are not sure do not speak. Just render am empathetic gesture. It's a strange coincidence that I stated a similar discussion as this. http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1819220.aspx Peace and health.
• China
6 Dec 08
I would tell him some other fighting back the cancer, and give him some I had gathered article about the cancer. How do you think about these?
@Humbug25 (12551)
5 Dec 08
Hi ya metababy Firstly I would like to say how sorry I am to hear your friend has cancer. I actually don't think there is anything you could possibly say that is going to comfort your friend. I woul, however, make sure that they know that you are there for them if there should be anything they need or want. Maybe they just want your company and you need to make sure you are there for them as a true friend would be. Good luck and take care of yourself as well as your friend.
• China
5 Dec 08
maybe i will tell to him,it's not your wrong.happy for today