The Matchmaking Trouble

Indonesia
December 5, 2008 3:21pm CST
For about 15 times i've been introduced by friends and families to a girl for finding eligible future wife. Well i'm not asking it but they seems to put it into something important somehow. and it gets me even more annoyed lately. They seem to not believe me that I can find my own girlfriend and no rushing to get married coz I still feel young in my 26. what is wrong with matchmaking anyway, it should be fun but somehow it gets me bored now. Do you feel that same way about matchmaking ? maybe i should take some internet dating service (:
1 response
@skbh12 (2946)
• Philippines
6 Dec 08
[b]hi rayesht! it would be better if you try meeting up with a girl yourself or ask real friends of yours if they can recommend you any girls that you could date and start getting to know with them. don't force yourself with the matchmaking thing especially when you don't really feel like doing it right? always remember that waiting for the right person is what you must do. because that right timing will come one of these days or even one of these months. don't hurry things up. don't be pressured with the people around you to marry just because they are concerned with your age or whatsoever reasons they have. always remember that it is you yourself who is getting engaged and committed with someone not them so you really have to choose carefully. dating is fine but don't force yourself to do what others want you to do. right? happy posting and happy mylotting![/b]
• Indonesia
6 Dec 08
of course i try meeting up with girls myself, and yes i ask my friends to introduce me. is 26 an alert age to be married as soon as possible, I really don't know why my family push me me to get married soon.