Pain of love is greater than any other pain in the world.

@ajithlal (14716)
India
December 6, 2008 7:04am CST
Why do we fall in love with people who does not love us? Why do we get mistake that a person love us back as much we love the person? Why do we get jealous when the person we love stay away and love or get closer to someone else? The pain of love is so painful it takes life slowly. Why are we getting these feelings?
6 responses
@dollar3235 (2062)
• India
19 May 12
Hi Ajit, It happens with everyone and it's the way life is. No doubt, it's the toughest thing to handle in anyone's life. You meet so many people in this world and most of them are not good people but their intentions won't hurt you for longer time. However, one good person or I should say, that special person when enters the life, it creates a lifelong impact, it could be good or bad depends upon weather that person loves you and is with you or not. Most of the people that you see in this world are not successful because of this reason only, they can't accept the fact that the world of happiness that they have seen in someone's eyes is not the truth of their life. Still there are brave people who can manage such pain and are able to change their goals in life as per the situation and are in some way satisfied and successful. So many sad songs that you listen to, are nothing else but such feeling expressed in words and music. To summarize all this, I would say, it's human nature, it happens and we are supposed to live with it.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
19 May 12
I also think that songs helps to express the feelings. Lots of words can be understand through the sad songs and good thing is that some of the songs have very good meaning. I think it is better to carry on with life than to spend on thinking about the pain of love.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
10 Jun 12
I also think that moving forward in our life is the best option and we should not stuck with the past of our lives.
• India
9 Jun 12
Yes, Ajith. What you are saying is logically correct but you know, this heart is something that doesn't understand logic at all. As far as the songs are concerned, when you have pain in your heart then only you start liking such songs, have you ever seen a below 13 year old kid listening to sad songs, for me it's a no and the reason is that painful feeling that comes to people only after 15+ but moving forward in life is the only option we have whether we understand and implement it in our life or not.
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• United States
7 Dec 08
Love is hard to explain. People fall in love with people whom don't love them because they are fooled into thinking the person really love them. Love isn't how it use to be. Now a days, It's hard to find love. No one really loves anymore It's all in our heads. Love is strong not weak. It has become the reason we can't sleep, eat and think. People get jealous because that's just how they are. With love comes trust..You can't fully love someone without the trust you see in them . Feelings arise from many important things. We must realize that love shouldn't hurt..Love should always make us happy.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
24 Mar 12
I also think most people who fall in love are fooled easily by thinking that the person really loves them and sometimes does lots of things that will finally make the person sad and especially more hurt if the person believes the other person loves them.
• India
6 Dec 08
I really agree with u. becuase love pain you can never forget but time try to forget other pains.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
16 Apr 12
There is a line in the movie that it is not the bullet, but the beauty that killed the beast in the movie King Kong.
@eynjel05 (444)
• Philippines
6 Dec 08
Love do comes in the most unexpected ways. We do get hurt when we experienced failed relationship.I think the very reason of this is that, when we love, we always give everything to the one we love. To the point that we don't think of ourself anymore.But come to think of this: How really sure you are that it's really true love that is what you are feeling towards that person? Sometimes, we should think of ourselves too. We should always not to forget what will be happening in the future. When we love, we should also give love to ourself and think of the possibilities.At the end you'll realize that loving someone doesn't really requires all the love to give,but hope and faith for that love to last forever.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
14 May 12
I also think it is better to love someone who love us rather than loving someone who does not love us.
• India
6 Dec 08
Hello, Hope you are well. When we love someone we should never expect from the other side too much. In my opinion We should give our love some space and let it go. And if it comes back to us then it was love. Otherwise it was only an infatuation. When we love someone, we expect too much from the other side. In my case I had never expected from the day 1, and the result is that I feel like heaven every time something happens that I never expected. I suggest you to make a little change in your thinking, and you will see a great difference in your life. I hope my words were not harsh for you. Take care.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
19 May 12
If we love someone, we should set them free and if they are truly ours, they will return and if they are not ours, they will never return.
• Philippines
6 Dec 08
I so totally agree with you about love as being the most painful thing. I believe it's the expectation that hurts us, they say love does not expect things in return it is sincere and does not envy. That's from the bible. Physiologically it's hormones, haha. But I guess it's one of the basic needs of being human. The need to love and be loved, to feel important and valued.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
7 Jun 09
I also think the greatest pain in life is pain in love.