what is your choice?

China
December 8, 2008 4:50am CST
if want to marry,what's u choice? the one who loves you ? or the one you love ?
3 responses
@ronnyb (6113)
• Jamaica
21 Dec 08
The ideal situation would be to love the one who loves you but that is rarely the case as often the one you love rarely loves you back.Most persons go with the one they love as they are motivated by heart.In this situation they spend their time doing the best to make that person satisfied howver being with the one who loves you will mean that someone will spend their time trying to make you happy .I think in the end I would go with the one who loves me and hoe that their actions will make me fall in love with them fully.This decision would be based on the premise that I at least like the person,find their company enjoyable andlike their personlity enough,its just that I might not love them completely.In addition I must also believe that there is room for improvement
@yamskee (827)
• Philippines
13 Dec 08
marriage is not a joke. it is something that deals with yourself, you other half and your future. i dont believe in annulments and divorce, thats why you have to be sure with whom you want to marry with. and for me i will definitely choose the person i love. i cant imagine myself sharing a bed with someone i dont even care about.
• United States
9 Dec 08
can i have both? if not then i will go for : the one who love me" why becuz i know that one day i will able to give the love he had for me in the right time. by this u can asure ur self that the person with u love u so much.