have you ever gone on a graveyard hunt?

Maude and Loring - Aunt Maude, my great-grandmother Mabel's older sister, and her husband, Loring Aldrich.
@dawnald (85135)
Shingle Springs, California
December 8, 2008 1:23pm CST
Saturday I went and found the graves of my great-great-aunt and uncle, paid my respects and took pictures for the family. They had raised my grandmother when her mom died (Auntie's younger sister) and then my mom and her siblings when her parents got divorced. Sometime after my parents got married they moved out to California and stayed with us but Auntie passed away almost right away and Uncle developed Alzheimers and spent his last years in a nursing home. They had a daughter but she had died a few years before my parents got married. Auntie was quite a golf player in her day, won a few trophies that are scattered around the family. Uncle liked to dress up. There are some old photos of him dressed as Little Lord Fauntleroy and the like. Auntie's family was Pennsylvania Dutch, but they must have left that community as the photos show them dressing in more modern clothing. Not sure if they were Amish or Mennonite or if they left voluntarily or were shunned. Would be interesting to find out if it's even possible after all these years.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
8 Dec 08
I am quite fortunate in that I can trace almost 200 years of my family in one church yard. Several in one family tomb. There are several others in a cemetery also in the same town. My father was the last in five generations to be born in the town. Now none of us live there, but I do go back every year or two. I have traced my family back to 1687. Earlier than that I cannot be certain but I am working on it. I find everything about genealogy fascinating. I'd love to go back and just spend one day as a fly on my Great Great Grandfather's wall.
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Dec 08
My Aunt Maxine has traced part of my father's line back to the 17th century, but most of the family information I have doesn't go back much farther than the late 1800's. Still it's fascinating stuff and I'm having fun with it.
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@KaMlBob (786)
• United States
8 Dec 08
Family history is always so interesting, especially when it is your own. I too love finding out about my ancestors. Funny, my Mother's mom, my Grandmother, her parents were killed in an auto accident (in the 1920's) when she was 4 or five years old. Her Aunt and Uncle raised her, whom I know as my Great Grandmother, now of course thay have all passed away. My 13 yr old and I spent a couple hours wandering around in a Graveyard in Grass Valley and it was very interesting, I still have a picture of him by a gravestone that said "Rooni"; that's my sons nickname!
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@KaMlBob (786)
• United States
8 Dec 08
NO! MY MOTHER-IN-LAW live in Grass Valley!! Morgan Ranch. We seem to have so much in common!
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@KaMlBob (786)
• United States
8 Dec 08
My father-in-law happens to live there too, same house any everything, he he. :)
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Dec 08
No kidding, my mother-in-law lives in Grass Valley!
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@oldboy46 (2129)
• Australia
9 Dec 08
It is not for me plus I know exactly where all my relatives here in Australia are buried. They are all in the 1 cemetary and have 2 plots side by side between them. Each grave has 2 buried and 1 also has 2 lots of Ashes of other family members. I doubt that any more will be added though and in fact they are probably the last family members who will be buried in that cemetary as none of the family are living in that district now. It sounds like you had an interesting time on Saturday and thanks for sharing it with us dawnald. Yes it would be good if you could find out more about your Auntie's family and it might be possible, even after all these years. I suspect it would depend if you can locate the area where they lived and what sort of records are kept from that time. When a good friend of mine retired a few years ago, he decided it was time to do some work on his family tree. He decided one of the things he could do was take a discovery trip to his place of birth. Like many people doing that sort of thing, he found many discrepencies as things did not tally with what he had always been told. Even today (about 5 years later) he is still puzzled about how his strict religious grandparents ended up in the PAGAN part of the cemetary. So sometimes there are surprises in store for people who look into their family history and there are no answers to tjhe questions which come up.
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
9 Dec 08
There are some interesting mysteries on my dad's side so maybe on mom's side too!
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@rocketj1 (6955)
• United States
8 Dec 08
Now this will sound weird, but........my husband and I enjoy going to cemetaries and historic graveyards. I love the old monuments and markers and we generally try to see which are the oldest stones in the graveyard. Yup. We're weird. But it sounds like you are doing a little family history and I really enjoy that too. Just a note. Pennsylvania Dutch (actually Germans who settled in Pennsylvania) were mostly Lutheran and Reformed. Some were Amish and Mennonite. But most were not.
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• United States
8 Dec 08
i bet you do like going to old cemeteries lol. just think of what you can do there. :) ok i will be have sorry rocket. i like to also i like to go read the info on the civil war soldiers and all.
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@rocketj1 (6955)
• United States
8 Dec 08
Are you stalking me just to taunt me in my old age?Behaving!? Right!
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Dec 08
Some of the older relatives think they may have been Amish but I don't think they know for sure.
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@Thumper11 (662)
• United States
8 Dec 08
I love old graveyards..... My dad has a farm with a really old graveyard on it. I want that field. It's always been my favorite field....... I love it... It's just so pretty. I plan on cleaning it out and taking care of the graves.... There are some hidden in the woods nearby, so I plan on finding all of them that I can. Most are so old that they are just marked with field stones.... You can try next time that you go taking a tape recorder and seeing if you can get some EVPS. I have done this once and got 1 voice. I plan on doing it again..... I am anxious to see what I get.
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Dec 08
evps?
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Dec 08
I neither believe nor do I disbelieve.
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• United States
8 Dec 08
electronic voice phenomenon.... you may be lucky enough to catch the voice of a spirit... I don't know if you believe or not, but just try it.....you may be surprised at what you get. And let me know. I didn't believe, but I got 1 good one and a few that might be....
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@niclos (20)
• United States
8 Dec 08
Yep I sure have. My family on my dad's side is from Louisiana and most of his relatives are buried at their local cemetary. During our family reunion a bunch of us went to the cemetary to find all of our long-lost, but still loved relatives from years gone-by. It's a humbling experience to see the gravesites of others whether family or not. It reminds us that life is fragile and temporary and we should live it to the fullest and with respect for others and ourselves.
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@KaMlBob (786)
• United States
8 Dec 08
When reading this string of posts, I was thinking the exact same thing, your mortality!
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Dec 08
I'm planning on living forever. I just haven't figured out how yet...
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@ZephyrSun (7381)
• United States
9 Dec 08
Well I don't go very often to the graveyard so everytime I go I have to hunt for the plots I am looking for. I usually have to take a cell phone and ask my mom to walk me through where I am going lol I had been thinking about "hunting" for my husband's father's plot but, he doesn't want to go and there are a lot of bodies there. That's a very interesting story about your family.
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
9 Dec 08
He may not want to but maybe other members of his family?
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
9 Dec 08
I have a friend who lost his father and whenever other family members brings him up, he changes the subject. He doesn't want to think about sad matters. Maybe it's something like that.
@ZephyrSun (7381)
• United States
9 Dec 08
Oddly enough No none of them. It's really strange.
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@Random28 (158)
8 Dec 08
I have had my family tree done and found out some of my ancestors are local. i visited the gravestone of my relatives from 100's of years back.
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Dec 08
My ancestors are definitely not local. My parents came to California in 1957. My dad's parents were immigrants. It goes a bit further back on my mom's side.
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