SANCTITY OF MARRIAGE , are you strictly keeping it in your (married) life...

@mobhomeir (7565)
Philippines
December 9, 2008 12:22am CST
sanctity of marriage is one of the basic requisite of creating a family's strong and good reputation. Some causes of broken family is the infidelity of either the husband or the wife. The most unfortunate after the broken-up of the family are the children. I am sure, you don't like this to happen in your family. But, what if someday, unexpectedly you found out that your husband or wife has an elicit affair with some other woman/man? The worst is, what if you caught them doing [*&^&&*&^}]in your room? Can you hold yourself of might be the worst of all the worst event in your life?
2 responses
• India
9 Dec 08
Well, if the husband or wife wants to have an illicit relationship, at least they should see that nobody comes to know about it. As for illicit relationships themselves, they are quite common. Most spouses cheat, if not physically, then at least mentally. I consider marriage to be a man-made and therefore unnatural social construct. Therefore, real pains must be taken to preserve it. :) Cheers and happy mylotting
@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
9 Dec 08
yes and we can't blame those couples who had been a victim of illicit affair. Maybe they have some reasonable reasons why they did it. We have no right to judge, its their own consequences...
@raynejasper (2326)
• Philippines
9 Dec 08
..well, I hope my husband would never do that.. However, if that happens then I hope I could still have a clear mind.. Things seem different when you just hear them and when you experience it first hand.. If given the chance to have a good mind during that time, I will give myself a break and think hard before I consider having an annulment with him.. Everybody commits a mistake and in a marriage, you have to expect unexpected things.. Its not bad to give a second chance to my husband if he promise not to do it again and he will be able to prove his worth to me.. If possible, I don't want my children to grow up in a broken family.. It's so hard for them.. I'll be hurt to my children in pain..
@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
9 Dec 08
Yes/ I think that would be the most unforgettable moment of your life...you're maybe right as song goes " LOVE IS LOVELIER THE SECOND TIME AROUND"...