SANCTITY OF MARRIAGE , are you strictly keeping it in your (married) life...

Well, if the husband or wife wants to have an illicit relationship, at least they should see that nobody comes to know about it. As for illicit relationships themselves, they are quite common. Most spouses cheat, if not physically, then at least mentally. I consider marriage to be a man-made and therefore unnatural social construct. Therefore, real pains must be taken to preserve it. :) Cheers and happy mylotting

..well, I hope my husband would never do that.. However, if that happens then I hope I could still have a clear mind.. Things seem different when you just hear them and when you experience it first hand.. If given the chance to have a good mind during that time, I will give myself a break and think hard before I consider having an annulment with him.. Everybody commits a mistake and in a marriage, you have to expect unexpected things.. Its not bad to give a second chance to my husband if he promise not to do it again and he will be able to prove his worth to me.. If possible, I don't want my children to grow up in a broken family.. It's so hard for them.. I'll be hurt to my children in pain..