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India
December 10, 2008 11:11pm CST
one of my friends is a doctor,as we docs have a very busy life.she is unable to pay atention to her family ..shez confused whether to quit the job or carry on!
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8 responses
• India
16 Dec 08
doctors work is imp to the society, she can hire workers to exclude house work, and save that time for family
@cybersoft01 (1284)
• India
11 Dec 08
I think she should carry on with her job. She can hire someone to look after the family or houseworks
@anna_82 (115)
• Philippines
11 Dec 08
i think you or she don't have to quit her job to have time or attention to hes family.there is always time if you want to. my husband is a call center agent, a call center agent have a difficult scheduled but would you believe he still have time for us, he still have time to play with the kids. its up to you/her. :)
@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
11 Dec 08
Well, if she really quits this job, if her husband able to support the family? Because, I don't think this would be a good time for someone to go out to the job market and try to find one that gives her more free time. It might not be worth it.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
11 Dec 08
Doctors mean much to a society.Your friend need not quit the job.If she is having her own clinic,then she has to pay more attention as is now a business like.And if not,she shall continue where she works and limit her working hours to a desired time.Then she will be just like any other working women and can pay attention to her family as well.Cheer up!
@bellebads (740)
• Philippines
11 Dec 08
i think it's better if she talk to her family and explain the nature of work that she's into. i'm sure her loved ones will understand that a lot of people would be needing her help since she is a doctor she is into public service. after all quality of time is still best rather than quantity. if she has a time even if it's just a small time she has to make sure that she is giving a quality time to her family.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
11 Dec 08
I know Doctors are always busy. But what I can say is what will make her Happy. I think all problems have solution, it's time usually the problem. I think she should weigh things first. Can I make a suggestion. Can she have a clinic at home? Or she can lesser her time with her work. Like scheduling it. Or have a grand vacation with her children and explain her work to them. It's very hard to stop when your already there and starty all over again in the future. It's just my opinion ok. Advance Merry Christmas to you!
@sivanj (1263)
• India
11 Dec 08
i would recommend to get along with the job and look at some management techniques to gather time for family. i say so because this is a service oriented profession and your services are essential to the society. i believe doctors are almost like Gods or God sent representatives to save lives on earth. i do agree that family is very important in everyone's life. i wish that her family member's also understand and support her morally. i wish that your friend does something to pull out hours everyday to spend with her family so that the whole issue becomes nullified. also this will help her rejuvenate only to do her next day's duty better. continuous spending time at work place (whatever may be the work) will result in fatigue and loss of interest also, which is not good. else ask her to plan for a family trip every 3 or 6 months.