should i abort him?

@ninaluv (338)
Nigeria
December 12, 2008 10:44am CST
i was in this relationship for a year and half now. he claimed he loved me and all that. now i told him i'm pregnant for him, and he is turning his back on me. i'm so confused, i dont know what to do. should i abort the baby, or do i go ahead and have him. please i need an answer and fast. thanks.
4 responses
@jha2x_09 (74)
• Philippines
13 Dec 08
hi... how are you??? my advice is that... dont abort the baby,because that is the gift of God to you,no matter what happen, you have to face the problem and be responsible to what you have done..I know your on a difficult situation but if you abort that baby, at the end of the day, you will realized and blame yourself of doing wrong.. I know that your confuse and dont know what to do right now.. but theres no other way to solve the problem,in your situation,you have to accept the fact that you will be a mother soon,just come to think of it,after giving birth and see your baby,you will forget all the things you have done before and im sure you'll be happy,because thats the greatest gift of all.. Just forget about the past,i know its not easy.. but you will cope up with it.. its a matter of accept things and forgetting things in the past.. i hope this will help you..
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@lovesummer (1162)
• Malaysia
13 Dec 08
I think do not abort the baby. You can have one now and why not? Plus it is not the fault of the baby. He should come to the world?
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
12 Dec 08
The best thing to have in a relationship is good communication. If a couple split up and it turns out to be a mistake they can get back together. If a lady has an abortion then her baby will be gone. She won't be able to change her mind. Some ladies that have have abortions have regretted it and years later got depressed. I think that your boyfriend might be fine about you being pregnant once he has got over the shock. He is being unkind by turning is back on you. Is he showing how much he loves you or is he just scared? If you have an abortion you might have regret and be unhappy. If you keep your boyfriend then you might split up in a few years and wish you hadn't aborted your baby. In that situation the abortion would be likely to put pressure on your relationship. It would have to be a strong relationship for you two to stay together. If you stay pregnant you might find your boyfriend becomes supportive or you might end up on your own. You could become a single mother and I am sure family and friends would help. I think that you need to think carefully and not be pushed into deciding. Good luck.
• India
12 Dec 08
i think You should leave that guy and tech him a lesson because he should not do it for the other girl and he should come himself to you to marry you because that is his duty to marry you because he made you pregnant