To go or not to go?

concert - concert, axemas party
@_sketch_ (5742)
United States
December 13, 2008 3:11am CST
Would u go to a concert even if you werent all that familiar with the band? There's this concert next friday and I am tempted to go, but I dont really even know the band. I know a couple songs, not even half the words, but it is the type of music I like, so I am wondering if I would just feel out of place the whole time or if I'd like it at all. Have you done this before? Did u enjoy it?
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6 responses
13 Dec 08
Hi _sketch_, I would go because if you don't go you would be asking yourself what if? you might enjoy yourself, one when I was single my ex boyfriend took me to a heavy metal concert, they were well known, it was Average White Band, and Rainbow, I think, whle he was enjoying himself I was getting eally fedup and it was too much noise for me, it was not my idea of music, I lkie easy listening. Tamara
10 Jan 11
Thank you for giving me B/R for this discussion. Hugs. Tamara
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
14 Dec 08
That's true. There's nothing worse than wondering what if. So even if it turns out to not be fun I'd still know. Thanks much. :)
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• United States
14 Dec 08
i have done it before but only if it was either already paid for by some one else or paid for as far as it being a fest ticket.. i like to go to ozzfest and i dunno if you know about ozzfest but its a huge thing with both big and small bands with of course ozzy in it.. well anyways i usually only know like 3 bands but since i pay for all of them i watch them all but if i had to pay for each one separately i wouldnt pay or see the ones i didnt know since i dont have that kind of money to blow..
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
14 Dec 08
Yeah I know what ozzfest is. I love Ozzy!! But I havent had the chance to go to ozzfest yet. sad :( Well this concert is real cheap, so i guess it wouldnt be that bad if I dont like the concert.
@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
14 Dec 08
I can understand how you feel. I always find myself in such situation. Concerts are definitely more enjoyable if you know all the songs of the singer/band. However, even if you don't, you can still enjoy as ultimately, it's the atmosphere that makes concerts so enjoyable. I went to Gwen Stefanie's concert last year. I'm more familiar with her when she's in No Doubt than when she's solo. I still went anyway. Though I only know a few songs, I still enjoyed it.
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
14 Dec 08
Yeah, ur right. I think it is the atmosphere that matters. I dont really know gwen stephani anymore either. I loved when she was in no doubt. I wish she was still with them. :( oh well.
@Zezlol (409)
• United Arab Emirates
13 Dec 08
Depends. I'll usually go if some friends are going with me, otherwise I won't. I went to a concert with my best friend this summer even though I wasn't that familiar with the group and it was a lot of fun. However, for me, it depends on the company, not really the music (as you can tell). xD For example, last year I went to a rock festival where a bunch of great bands were playing. I enjoyed the beginning, but then my friends started being idiots and really ruined the entire night for me. That one concert ruined live performances for me because now I'm always skeptical whether I should go or not. Anyways, to answer your question, it just depends on the type of person you are. Do you think you'll feel out of place? Or are you the type that will enjoy any music as long as it's of your preferred genre? I'm the type that feels out of place - mainly because I'm unsocial, though. If you think you're going to enjoy it I suggest you go. Don't miss out on a fun opportunity! Good luck with whatever you decide.
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
14 Dec 08
Yeah, I've gone to concerts of bands I didnt know cuz friends talked me into it, but this one I was jut planning on going alone unless someone wants to go with me. I get what u mean about the company. I've had friends ruin outings (not just concerts) for me too. I dont really know how'd I feel, I dont know what kind of person I am. Sometimes I can be very sociable, but other times I am the complete opposite. Maybe it is a fun opportunity. I am starting to think that I should go. Hmmm...idunno..We'll see.
• Canada
13 Dec 08
I always go to shows even if I don't know the band. Its a great way to find new music. I usually do this with indie bands, where there music isnt easily available online or in stores. It really gives me a good feel for what the artists are about. If its a large mainstream act i might think twice. the ticket is probably expensive and you might be able to check out the band online before hand.
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
14 Dec 08
Well I somewhat know the band, so it's not completely a shot in the dark. And it's underground, so the ticket is only 7.50. Thanks. I think I will go.
• United States
3 Mar 09
Kind of depends on how much money your spending. If it is a cheap show and there are good people going you should have a good time regardless of whether or not the band is your favorite. I wouldn't cash out for a band that I didn't know, but then again you might go and decide you really like them. Seeing a band live can put a whole new perspective on their music.