What is more important than love?

China
December 15, 2008 7:59am CST
hello, girls and guys. What is more important than love? A friendship,a career or family relationship? For me, friendship is more important than love. How about u?
8 responses
@nicholaYa (121)
15 Dec 08
hey..guys ,..here all you said friendship is more important than love..but how many people all you did like this..sometimes when you need choose it and how many people you did choose the friendship..now i think its up to the condition..but most i will choose love..you know love could be the unique..i mean if your lover you really love he or she.. but under this situation like me and a girl.she is my friend..and she likes me..yeah..ill choose friendship not fall love with she..
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• China
16 Dec 08
Hi,Nicholaya. I'm a girl not a guy. U know, love is full of trouble, but friend can settle trouble for u. when love gets in, and friendship is gone. So for me friendship is important for me.
• Philippines
15 Dec 08
well for my friendship is also is the most important rather than love. theres a different level of love but the most purest for me is the friendship that u had to others. how u deal to the other people and how u trust them to show the real u.
• China
16 Dec 08
Hi, gaylalou. Thank you for ur responese and so sorry for my late reply. Well, u know the friendship is indispensable to our modern life.Maybe we can live without a brother or a sister, but not without a friend. Is it right? and u know, in many kind of business, u naturally have to rub up with against all kinds of people.And from ur experience, u can decide whom u should make friends or trust them. Well, hope u have a good night. :)
• China
16 Dec 08
How u trust them to show the real u. -- Regarding this question, u know when u fall sick and u will see who is your friend and who is not. So if they were ur friend u can trust them.
@jha2x_09 (74)
• Philippines
15 Dec 08
hi...... the important for me,is love.. as of my situation right now,im married and im happy with husband.Friends still there for us to comfort us and give advice but then,friends cannot complete our lives,no matter what happen, in the future we'll be setlled to our love one and i believe that, love is the most important to have a successful married life...
• China
16 Dec 08
Hi,Jha,thank u for ur response. I'm glad to hear that u are happy with ur husband.I'm single now, so maybe i don't know the meaning of love well, for me the friendship is important. Maybe after 10 years, I'll change my mind. Well, have a wonderful time with ur husband, hope everything is going well with u. :)
• India
15 Dec 08
It all depends on how u interpret the word "love". My guy is my Best friend. According to my perspective...Nothing is more important than love cos Love is inclusive of friendship!!!!
• China
16 Dec 08
Hello, shankari_prabhu. Thank you for letting me know ur mind.Yes it all depends on how u interpret the word"Love". But I know that when love puts in friendship, and friends are lost. In a word, finally u will lose love and friendship. Best friend is just best friend and not lover. And between love and friendship, i will choose friendship.
• United States
15 Dec 08
Family relationships are priority over love. I do choose such as my mother and son and whole family over my romantic relationships. However this does not make it ok for me to make those feel enferior to my family. What it means is if my "lover" is being wrong towards my family I will make sure it does not happen again. In the past an ex of mine made me feel like I was "not as important" as his family, which in my opionion this is unfair. You can put your family first without making others feel like less.
• China
16 Dec 08
Hi, thank u for your response. Yes, family relationships,I love my family and i hope to spend more time at home with my parents. Maybe u are right. Maybe it's unfair for my family.
• Indonesia
15 Dec 08
sociality is more important for me because without it we will not have a relations,friendship or anything... but no any prefer then love
• China
16 Dec 08
Hello,praptoary. Certainly sociality is also important.Because we get friends through the social activity. And without it we will not have any relation. I agree with u.
@nchap36 (556)
• United States
15 Dec 08
I'll rather have friendship.
• China
16 Dec 08
I think so. Thank u for ur respond.
@Frederick42 (2019)
• Canada
16 Dec 08
Money is more important than love. Nothing is more important than money. If you have lots of money, you can also win the love of people. You can look at the rich people; hundreds are craving for their attention. But nobody cares about the poor.