caught in the act of cheating

I'd dump him. I hate when people lie to me and cheating is that lieing so they'd be gone. no second chances, of course i'd make sure they knew this early on in the realaation ship so it wouldn't come as a surprise to them. I wish I had a boyfriend.

I think most people can't really say how they will react because it is such a shocking experience. I have caught mine man cheating before and I reacted in different ways each time. The one time I saw him walking in the park with a girl we met on a cruise to the Bahamas (how they got together I still don't know). I just looked at him, waved and kept going. Another time I found out about a girl he got pregnant which he said was a one night stand but I later found out they had been together for a year while we were together. That one seem to hurt the most and I acted the most out of character with every new bit of information. I threw him out the house, threw his keys down a sewer and the one day I saw a passion mark on his neck after he was suppose to be over there checking on his son, I grabbed him by the collar and laid him out on the floor. That's the first time I ever saw fear in his eyes and he's 6'3" while I am only 4'9".

When I am mad or angry I rather not talk. It will take time for me to talk or see her again. I'll just turn my back! I just want to be alone or never see her again. Have a nice day to you!

I never thought anyone would cheat on me. It's just too unthinkable for my ego but then again, shitt happens and I would not know how to think or react when it happens. i am sure that something will come to me, something stupid I mean. Cheers!!

Cheating on me.. well at first I'd pummel both of them.. Naw in all seriousness I would go home pack my stuff and leave immediatly. Nothing can change what's been done but I can change it from ever happening again. I am a firm believer that those types of acts always find a way to bite you in the butt sooner or later. Of course I'd get angry but never would I show it at least not to him. You see the great thing with friends and family is they do most of the hurting for you. To be a cheater and be in the same town as this individual all of your friends can make his/ her life a living heck. I pitty anyone who gets cheated on but I will never pitty a person if they choose to stay with someone who is unfaithful to them. If they've done it once they'll do it again no matter how sorry they are they should have thought about the consequences before hand. No for me walking out that door shows sends just as much of a message as my fist in both of their faces. After that though I may consider getting a punching bag to help alleviate that anger so it's not taken out on others if I ended up with a short fuse (like just being mean in my tone etc.)

That is the one think i cannot stand in a relationship - cheating. I personally am not a fan of it and of course i will get upset beyond recognition. The way i'd show how am furious is by completely not talking to the person for a while. I'd avoid them at all cost and maybe when i get some sense go talk to them. I don't like to be cheated on so i'd more than likely 'let go' of the person. I mean i try to understand why people cheat but i honestly don't know why they would do it. such is me.... happy mylotting mylottians! =D