Has Anyone Ever Led You On?

United States
December 16, 2008 11:36pm CST
I've been led on before and it is one of the worse feelings in the world. A girl once made me think that she liked me. Everyday she kept giving me letters saying how she wanted to get to know me and that she really liked me. It went on for about two weeks. Then a week later, my best friend told me that he saw her kissing some other guy after school. And when I asked her about it she said "Yea, that's my boyfriend." And I asked her what about me and she said "What about you?" I've never felt that many emotions at one time before in my life. Here I am, thinking that I had found someone who actually liked me, and the whole time she was just messing with me. I was angry, my self-esteem dropped, I didn't trust anyone. I just felt awful. So have any of you experienced a similar situation? Feel free to share your thoughts and experiences.
2 responses
@Damsel89 (43)
• United States
17 Dec 08
When I was a child, I would always turn down boys because I was afraid they were only asking me out as a joke, or maybe a dare from their friends. When I was 14/15 years old, I was in a desperate condition. I had no friends and was highly reclusive. I had just got the internet, as well. I met someone online and we [very] quickly called ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend. (Lame, I know.) He would send me poems, which I really admired. It only lasted a week, and I ended up getting into self-injury with his encouragement. Turns out, those poems that made me feel so special were just rock songs. I was such a fool. Thankfully, I am in better condition now. When asked about exes, I say I have none.
• Philippines
17 Dec 08
well i was the one who was guilty with it. i did made someone feel such. i broke up with him coz i know that i don't have feelings for the him. and i don't want to make him suffer more. but then again though he knows that i don't love him he still want to be with me. i don't want to make him cry but still i hurt him. i told him that i can't pretend anymore but still he wants to stay with the relationship. i still broke up with him, it's been two years and still i am afraid to have a relationship bec of what happend. i may grow tried of the relationship and hurt another person again. now i just wait and look around may be love will come to me.