What's appealing to you?
By stardustkp
@stardustkp (186)
Sweden
December 17, 2008 10:32am CST
What's appealing to you? What are you looking after when you want to find someone to be your partner? Whether it's the person's body features (eyes, stomach, feet etc.) or it's personality/behavior (loyal, warm, funny, tidy etc.), let's share our thoughts.
This question can have many answers, it's different from persons to persons. I'm just curious about what you think is attracting. If you want you can add what you wouldn't like. Misbehavior/Records in any form and shape. Just express it!
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@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
17 Dec 08
Good point to discuss and thank you for providing.
Mine will be the 'first say' from the bottom of my heart, deeply. Regardless of her current or present life record/track, as it can be negotiated between my heart and mind, contemplating for whats the best to be done next. When we take about the appealing elements, of course it's a package and no one want to take bad side of the half. As love is a reward of satisfaction. Satisfaction comes from our heart. So the next step of appealing I will play by ear while looking for the beneficence in it.
My conclusion, my heart's first saying does appeals me.
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@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
17 Dec 08
Hi stardustkp,
I always believe for my heart's 'first say'(commonly called: intuition). If for "NOT", so no chance for her even she bowed before me regardless of whatever advantages she got or belongs to.
Same thing if it happened to me, my intuition said; "she's the one"; I'll give 'chase' after that girl wherever she go, although she run to other planet.....emmmmm!!!...I must not to missed to get her whatever it takes. My real life story now on myLot....LOL!!! she quits from my myLot friend's list and on facebook, as well. But, where ever she go, she'll be mine and will be my wife in 2020. Wierd isn't it, stardustkp???? Again I repeat, this is my real life love story.....LOL!!!
@mzplased (255)
• United States
17 Dec 08
A great personality is what always won me over. I like a person to be "real" from the first meeting. An open honest person that isnt afraid to be silly once in awhile. I also looked for someone I really got along with, this person should be like a best friend you would want to share everything with.
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@stardustkp (186)
• Sweden
17 Dec 08
We're thinking alike. Someone who brings out to good in you? And someone you're feeling complete with? I'm asking such though questions these days. Ohoh. And with your words it sounds like you found what you were looking for. If that's the case, congrats!
Thank you for your response on this not-so-easy-question/discussion!
@stardustkp (186)
• Sweden
17 Dec 08
That's two (character and understanding) very important things when you're looking after a partner indeed. Some people can have very pretty eyes, deep and 'understanding' ones - but it all comes down to what you like after all. Thanks a lot for your response, dear Twinklee!
