who do you prefer to be your best friend,guy or girl?

@Flouya (283)
India
December 18, 2008 9:48am CST
To be honest,i prefer guy to be my best friend,although i am a girl.Because sometimes,i find it's really hard to tell girls about my own privacy.If i tell her,maybe the next day,everyone would know it.They are so mean and make me uncomfortable,they never speak ill of you infront of your face,however they'd like to scold you behind you.What's your view?Do you agree with me? plus
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7 responses
@liisafiat (659)
• Latvia
19 Dec 08
The sad truth about woman-friends is....they are competitors. Relationship on the woman-to-woman basis is not an excellent one. As for men....Woman-friend-man relations can exist, but sooner or later they turn into a flirt, and then....Break-up. I prefer friend: guy, but only ONE. And for a lifetime, hopefully.
@Flouya (283)
• India
20 Dec 08
I very happy to see a lady here,you r so nice,thanks for your reply. I agree with you!
• Latvia
23 Dec 08
:) Thanks.
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
18 Dec 08
Hey flouya, How u doing? Hope u r enjoying yr stay in India. Well I always find it easy with guys. I dont have a friel friend who is that close to me whom i can tell all my secrets. On the other hand i have a lot of guys whom i can talk freely. Well to discriminate is not right. No two people are same. So u cant say that guys are better than girls and vice versa. Anyway glad to c u again in mylot and take care! Cheers, Tutul
@Flouya (283)
• India
18 Dec 08
Hi,i really happy to see you,again.Thanks for your advice.:);) You are so kind!
@eshaan (6188)
• India
18 Dec 08
i dont agree, it depends...all girls are not the same,there are different nature and if u really find a good friend then they will keep ur secrets, all are not the same kind, maybe u have not got proper friends, so u r saying it.
@Flouya (283)
• India
18 Dec 08
Yeah,you are right,i still believe i can find a girl as my best friend. maybe....
@carinio98 (2929)
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
of curse girl. i like to make friends with the girls. i dont know why.
@lourry (72)
• China
27 Dec 08
personally, gender, no matter female or male, dosenot play a vital role in the case that whom i choose to be my best friend because firstly a good character is what i'd like to emphasize on and as different individual has its own character, which are not only dependent of gener but also background, education and experience and so on, hence,both guy and girl could be my best friend. wish you good luck and happy mylotting.
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
Either of the two. But I am more comfortable with a girl.:) So I may know the side of a girl, isn't it?:)
@Flouya (283)
• India
18 Dec 08
er... maybe,if a girl stand in front of a guy,her performance will be better.
• United States
18 Dec 08
I prefer for a guy to be my best friend. I am a girl but I have always been more comfortable with guys being my friends. They are not as catty as girls can be. Guys will tell you how it is to your face when girls tend to talk about you behind your back.