Have you been such bad relation that it made you an alcoholic?

Oh my! That's pretty extreme! I think if it ever got THAT bad, the person shoud get out of the relationship right away seek counseling! I was in an abusive relationship once and actually opted to go to counseling so I could get the strength to leave and stay away! - Some people who have had to see a shrink are embarrassed... not me, I'm proud of it!