do you so easy to forget about painful memory?
23 Dec 08
Nop, I dont forget that easy especially not those times that have made a significant mark or impression on me. Kinda like you can forgive what happened might it be your friend or yourself but one should never forget so as to avoid repeating the same mistakes again. We should learn from it and pain does make us a lot more stronger than we are at present. Its just a learning experience.^_^
22 Dec 08
rarely. i always try to erase them from my memory because it's really not healthy to keep thinking about something that makes you really feel upset or sad. but somehow i remember it when someone mentions about something similar or related to it but i don't feel the pain already though. i think we should all learn to forget about unpleasant experiences and memories because lie will always be better without those in our minds. try to think about the happy times and not the bad times. happy mylotting.
22 Dec 08
generally, I don't manage to forget nothing... i can't forget neither my wrong behaviours, nor wrong behavours of others towards me.. in particulary, I can't forget two events that hurt me... the first one happens some years ago when I deceived the trust that one of my best friends had towards me.. I deceived her in a terrible way, losing a friendship that was so important for me.. and keeping on loving a person that refused my affection... the second one is something that I'll never forget.. it's an experience that pursues me everywhere... it's spoiling my christmas time... and i never talk about it, because I really can't bear something like this.. My loved half-sister doesn't want to talk nor to see me anymore.. now I'm almost twenty and I've not been contacting her since 2005 - i think.. I am so sorry about her refusal towards me!! i'm paying for my relatives's faults!!! i'm paying for something I didn't do! and it's a really pain for me... I think that I won't overcome it, neither when I'll become adult..