are you getting the "equal" treatment today?

Philippines
December 26, 2008 4:49am CST
as i noticed today, women are empowered... but the thing is...women are not getting the same treatment from men. for instance, in job hunting and the like. how about you? are you getting the same and equal treatment?
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@daliaj (5674)
• India
26 Dec 08
Equal treatment is only a dream. Let us wait for the time when it will come true.
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• Philippines
26 Dec 08
do you think that it will not happen in reality? how sad..
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@jfxrsch (1041)
• China
28 Dec 08
I don't want to be treated "equally". Why? Woman has to take care of family. The entire world can say that men are able to share the house jobs. But house jobs and nursing jobs are done by woman. Now, since the idea of being "equal", woman has to go work and bring back home bacon... then, do the house job and nursing job. That's the situation that the idea of "equal" bring to woman-- double jobs.
@jfxrsch (1041)
• China
28 Dec 08
Your idea is a bit against nature-- can man give birth to a baby? Does man have milk? Does baby feel sweet sleeping in a man's arms? Without solving those nature problems, and simply apply so called "equal" rights is just unfair to woman.
• Philippines
28 Dec 08
but do you think women should be treated equally.. i mean men can also do the nursing jobs too... if both parents will do the same jobs (nursing and work) then the equality will begin..
• India
29 Dec 08
Very frankly speaking, I don’t know. There are so many aspect to equality, that its hard to confine within a few parameters. Firstly, I am a single child of my parents and they gave me the best in terms of education and other things. I don’t know what would have been the case if I had a brother, as India is still a male-oriented society. Secondly, in colleges, I have had many boys as friends and there definitely I was treated equally. Thirdly in jobs, I have not had to compete with the guys so much so I don’t really know. Guys around me have either been good or have had different career interests so we never clashed. Fourthly, in marriage, hubby and I are the best of friends so we are equal on most terms except for housework. Its me who does all the slogging while he does nothing around the house. Its not that because he is the husband, but because we Indians are brought up that way… the wife does the housework and not the husband. So in that way, I certainly do not feel equal.
• Philippines
29 Dec 08
i am happy that your hubby and you are in equal terms...but sadly, on housework...well, the culture of each country should be respected in terms of equality. i guess equality is such a big issue.
• India
27 Dec 08
I never agree that we get equal treatment at any point of time. As time goes out responsibility only increases not the power or influence increases. We have more duties than power to take decision and compete with men. Men always a dominating community with less knowledge and less effort. This is only my opinion.
• Philippines
27 Dec 08
i think even if we are in the 21st century..we do not have equal power and treatment with men... how sad..
@sumi1984 (14)
• India
29 Dec 08
Woman by nature are soft and men by nature are bold. Although the situation is changing but equality has not yet been established.
• Philippines
1 Jan 09
yes, it is difficult to establish the equality in this world.